I am definitely a creature of habit. When I take my daily hikes, I traipse along one of four trails, usually the Ocean View Trail at John Muir’s famous national park Muir Woods. But this week, after the sky dumped loads of rain, my favorite trail was closed. I stood there in front of the yellow barricades, feeling perplexed and a wee bit pissed. How dare they close my favorite trail? Disoriented, I wandered a bit aimlessly, going in circles, until I ambled upon a trail I had never taken. Feeling a bit of trepidation, I questioned whether to embark upon a new journey.
Where would it take me? How far would it go? Would there be unforeseen obstacles? Too much mud? Another trail closure? Would there be rivers I couldn’t cross or downed trees I couldn’t get over? I know the other trail like it’s my own home- no surprises and guaranteed beauty. But this new trail? Well, it could be full of daggers- or it could be full of mystery.
Standing at that fork in the path, I ventured forth. What the hell! The Universe was telling me it was time for a new trail. Although it was out of my comfort zone, I stepped forth, and within minutes, I was in this gorgeous redwood glen with the newly topped-off river rushing through. Then the trail began to climb, gently up the hill, from the redwood bases to the tippy tops of the trees, until I was standing with a birds eye view of my favorite trees. Cresting the ridge, I saw fog creeping in and out between the pine needles, leaving tendrils of mist behind like spider webs. Then, all of the sudden, the sun broke through and poured forth one of those spotlights of white light into the forest (I call them God Beams). The God Beam was shining upon this one spot on the trail before me, beckoning. I walked further and stepped into the spotlight. When I did, a warm feeling rushed through me. I stood, eyes closed, marveling in the sudden immediacy of God’s bountiful love and nature’s ever-present miracles.
It got me thinking. How often do we become such creatures of habit that we fail to step out of our comfort zones? Because one path is comfortable, we walk the same one every day, time after time. It’s not until something blocks our path that we’re forced to take the road not traveled. Then, forced onto another path, we suddenly find ourselves in the radiant light of brilliant new change.
What if, instead of getting pissed at the obstacles, we accept what is and simply walk a new path? What if (even braver), we choose to walk a new path even if no obvious obstacles exist? What if we’re simply open to exploring new adventures, new directions, new possibility?
Today, I’m going back to Muir Woods, and instead of walking either of the trails I usually walk, I’m going to seek out a whole new one. I wonder what miracles await me this time.
What about you Pinkies? Are you creatures of habit? Are you willing to bust out of your comfort zone and go exploring? What aspect of your life needs to be stirred up? How could a change of scenery light your path?

I’ll leave you with one of my mother’s favorite poems:
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that, the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
two roads diverged in a wood, and I --
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
-Robert Frost
Taking the fork in the road (and mustering up my courage),
Lissa
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One road DOES lead to
By Lissa Rankin on Sunday, 10/25/2009 at 4:22 PMOne road DOES lead to another, and we know deep down, that we can never undo the the decision, in a way. Each fork in the road indelibly changes us. But thank God! We wouldn't want it any other way, would we?
Thanks Christa!
Lissa, dear, this is one of
By Christa Avampato (not verified) on Sunday, 10/25/2009 at 2:43 PMLissa, dear, this is one of my favorite poems too. The line that always gets me is "Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back." Once we realize that one road leads us to another and then another and another, we recognize that these forks are really choices and there is a great possibility that this choice will never present itself again. They are defining moments. Maybe that's why we hesitate when we face them.
I love the photo of you hugging the tree on your new path. I have to admit that when I took a new path and was scared to do so, as I look back I am so glad that I could face my fear of something new and keep going. Those new paths have indeed made all the difference.
Can't wait to hear where your new trails lead!
xoxo, C
Yes, Sulis, that is my
By Lissa Rankin on Saturday, 10/24/2009 at 5:21 AMYes, Sulis, that is my favorite line of the poem!
For me the last lines of
By Sulis (not verified) on Saturday, 10/24/2009 at 2:04 AMFor me the last lines of Robert Frost stood out (thanks for sharing this poem!). About daring to go where others, including oneself, have not yet gone. Maybe even making a new path or two.
two roads diverged in a wood, and I – I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.
god beams! love it. =)
By dawn (not verified) on Friday, 10/23/2009 at 9:59 AMgod beams! love it. =)
What Jim said. Yogi's is one
By Simone da Rosa (not verified) on Friday, 10/23/2009 at 9:37 AMWhat Jim said. Yogi's is one of my fave life quotes. It's just so true and inspiring and a real reminder. Good on you!
The Bad One,
Si
Thank you Jim & Deepa- Each
By Lissa Rankin on Friday, 10/23/2009 at 7:24 AMThank you Jim & Deepa- Each time a fork in the road appears, I feel myself torn. But I'm trying to let that go. All we can do is the best we can at the moment- moving forward, choosing a path, and being present with what really is.
Dear Lissa, It is so
By Deepa Sakthivel (not verified) on Friday, 10/23/2009 at 5:52 AMDear Lissa,
It is so interesting!. Ya! you inspired me to do.
With love®ards, Deepa.
Dear Lissa, I'm sure you're
By Jim Arnold (not verified) on Friday, 10/23/2009 at 5:52 AMDear Lissa,
I'm sure you're aware of the old Yogi Berra quote? "When you come to a fork in the road, take it."
Anyway, you can find wisdom in many places.
Have a great hike along a new path today.
-jim