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		<title>By: Lissa Rankin</title>
		<link>http://www.owningpink.com/2009/11/17/the-difference-between-curing-and-healing/comment-page-1/#comment-4513</link>
		<dc:creator>Lissa Rankin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 06:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your sweet words of validation, Anges- I love you too!

I would argue that we all must claim our roles as healers. Yes, any of us who do it well do it as &quot;healing facilitators.&quot; We do not &quot;fix&quot; someone else. We just serve to hold up the mirror so another PInkie can find the magic within them to heal themselves. But that, by definition, makes us healers. We don&#039;t fix others, we empower them. Own it, girlfriend. YOU are a healer.

The way I see it, the wound within me sees the healer within you. The healer within you sees the wound within me. And in this place, we connect. This is where true healing happens. 

Why do they not teach us this in med school? It PISSES me off. 

We hold so much power within us. 
Love to you,
Lissa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your sweet words of validation, Anges- I love you too!</p>
<p>I would argue that we all must claim our roles as healers. Yes, any of us who do it well do it as &#8220;healing facilitators.&#8221; We do not &#8220;fix&#8221; someone else. We just serve to hold up the mirror so another PInkie can find the magic within them to heal themselves. But that, by definition, makes us healers. We don&#8217;t fix others, we empower them. Own it, girlfriend. YOU are a healer.</p>
<p>The way I see it, the wound within me sees the healer within you. The healer within you sees the wound within me. And in this place, we connect. This is where true healing happens. </p>
<p>Why do they not teach us this in med school? It PISSES me off. </p>
<p>We hold so much power within us.<br />
Love to you,<br />
Lissa</p>
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		<title>By: Anges</title>
		<link>http://www.owningpink.com/2009/11/17/the-difference-between-curing-and-healing/comment-page-1/#comment-4512</link>
		<dc:creator>Anges</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 06:43:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You might want to look at my blog &quot;I can sir&quot;... I hope you don&#039;t mind me mentioning this...

http://thesoulawakener.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/i_can_sir/

Anges the Soul Awakener</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You might want to look at my blog &#8220;I can sir&#8221;&#8230; I hope you don&#8217;t mind me mentioning this&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://thesoulawakener.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/i_can_sir/" rel="nofollow">http://thesoulawakener.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/i_can_sir/</a></p>
<p>Anges the Soul Awakener</p>
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		<title>By: Anges</title>
		<link>http://www.owningpink.com/2009/11/17/the-difference-between-curing-and-healing/comment-page-1/#comment-4511</link>
		<dc:creator>Anges</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 06:36:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You already know I am in love with you... and this is not helping at all LOL

As a healer (the term is not even appropriate - I should say a healing facilitator) I know one thing: we are the only ones who can heal ourselves. Others can give us the tool but the healing power is in us. Nowhere else. And it happens when we connect to our souls &lt;3</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You already know I am in love with you&#8230; and this is not helping at all LOL</p>
<p>As a healer (the term is not even appropriate &#8211; I should say a healing facilitator) I know one thing: we are the only ones who can heal ourselves. Others can give us the tool but the healing power is in us. Nowhere else. And it happens when we connect to our souls &lt;3</p>
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		<title>By: jane</title>
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		<dc:creator>jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 02:20:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>healing is often about finding our God/Goddess nature... about connecting with our truth... whether that be by Reiki (a wonderful story in the comments!) or by the contact with a true healer such as yourself Lissa...when the heart and soul is heard and acknowledged there are shifts which no one can predict... blessings to you for sharing your Dad&#039;s heart rending story....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>healing is often about finding our God/Goddess nature&#8230; about connecting with our truth&#8230; whether that be by Reiki (a wonderful story in the comments!) or by the contact with a true healer such as yourself Lissa&#8230;when the heart and soul is heard and acknowledged there are shifts which no one can predict&#8230; blessings to you for sharing your Dad&#8217;s heart rending story&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: carol mccracken</title>
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		<dc:creator>carol mccracken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 18:52:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You inspire me</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You inspire me</p>
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		<title>By: antoinette</title>
		<link>http://www.owningpink.com/2009/11/17/the-difference-between-curing-and-healing/comment-page-1/#comment-3855</link>
		<dc:creator>antoinette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:06:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks love your page
you inspire me
god bless girlfriend

Antoinette</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks love your page<br />
you inspire me<br />
god bless girlfriend</p>
<p>Antoinette</p>
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		<title>By: Lissa Rankin</title>
		<link>http://www.owningpink.com/2009/11/17/the-difference-between-curing-and-healing/comment-page-1/#comment-3848</link>
		<dc:creator>Lissa Rankin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 23:53:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my, James- now it&#039;s me that&#039;s crying. Thank you so much for your beautiful, clarifying words. I want to make your comment its own post! Wow. You get it. Thank you, sweetie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my, James- now it&#8217;s me that&#8217;s crying. Thank you so much for your beautiful, clarifying words. I want to make your comment its own post! Wow. You get it. Thank you, sweetie.</p>
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		<title>By: James Serendip</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Serendip</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 22:25:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent and important post Lissa!  As a hypnotherapist and not a licensed healthcare provider I have to be careful never to use the words &quot;cure&quot; or &quot;heal&quot; or I could end up in jail, but to me what you have really uncovered here is about empowerment or disempowerment around our own bodies and our health.  We humans have come to accept that our bodies are like clocks and once the spring is wound and set in motion, then the only way to change what is happening is to tinker with the mechanism (called Allopathy).  But I can tell you from years of personal experience that our minds and bodies cannot be separated, and very real conditions in the body can respond in profound ways to changes in our thoughts (or even just what we focus on).

Hearing Erin&#039;s story in the comments reminds me of many that I have helped with conditions like ulcerative colitis, Crohn&#039;s, IBS, and for many of these people, when the underlying emotional traumas are finally released (sometimes from childhood!) the conditions seem to just disappear, as if by magic.  But it is so important to understand that it isn&#039;t magical at all.  It is how our mind/body complex works, and WE ARE ALL WORKING PERFECTLY... we just may have gotten into a situation where the input to our body/mind is not really appropriate for us any more, and so the body responds.

But you also bring up a much larger issue which I talk about with many of my friends in the healing professions... which is that &quot;health&quot; is not always what is right or needed for a person, and if that is the case, you can do whatever you want with them and they will not get &quot;healthy&quot; but they may get WELL.  We in the healing fields must begin to consider a much bigger picture of the individual -- what are we here to do?  why are we who we are?  we need to consider our karma or our spiritual purpose as well as just the connection of thoughts and physiology.  As the amazing story of your Dad demonstrates, not only can we sometimes heal what cannot be cured, sometimes we can also cure what cannot be healed, by simply being true to ourselves instead of external expectations or the desires of others.  He got what he needed out of his life experience -- he go to be present for a most precious moment in his family, and then it was perfectly ok with him to go.  Not only had he healed his symptoms, he &quot;cured&quot; for himself the idea of this physical affliction ruining things for him or taking him from the experience of his grandchild&#039;s birth.  Death is not an illness.  It is a natural part of life.  Just as even illness can sometimes be our cure.  Often people will become sick because at a deeper psychological or emotional level they NEED some rest or attention or quiet time, and that need is greater than the need for physical health.

I want to encourage your readers to consider health on a more big-picture scale, and realize that if we are in balance in our minds and hearts and energies, then we can be healthy or healed even if our bodies are damaged, and the body is often almost a metaphor for what we are experience in our total being. So if something is not working so well in the body... what does that part of the body represent?  (i.e. SPINE represents support, Feet=grounding, COLON=release vs. holding on, SKIN=boundaries etc.)

We are what we perceive ourselves to be.  This doesn&#039;t mean that the body isn&#039;t real, or that you can think yourself out of any illness, but rather that the mind is always a good place to start with any challenge we are facing.  When you have control of your thoughts, you can access the full potential of your body.  And I believe that our true nature is LOVE, and so if our thoughts and actions and words are in resonance with love, we are aware and clear and truly expressing ourselves, but if our thoughts or words or actions are not in resonance with love, we have fallen asleep at the wheel.  This applies with illness as well as other areas of life.  If I can be loving with myself and my body even when my body is in pain or discomfort or danger, then I am truly awake!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent and important post Lissa!  As a hypnotherapist and not a licensed healthcare provider I have to be careful never to use the words &#8220;cure&#8221; or &#8220;heal&#8221; or I could end up in jail, but to me what you have really uncovered here is about empowerment or disempowerment around our own bodies and our health.  We humans have come to accept that our bodies are like clocks and once the spring is wound and set in motion, then the only way to change what is happening is to tinker with the mechanism (called Allopathy).  But I can tell you from years of personal experience that our minds and bodies cannot be separated, and very real conditions in the body can respond in profound ways to changes in our thoughts (or even just what we focus on).</p>
<p>Hearing Erin&#8217;s story in the comments reminds me of many that I have helped with conditions like ulcerative colitis, Crohn&#8217;s, IBS, and for many of these people, when the underlying emotional traumas are finally released (sometimes from childhood!) the conditions seem to just disappear, as if by magic.  But it is so important to understand that it isn&#8217;t magical at all.  It is how our mind/body complex works, and WE ARE ALL WORKING PERFECTLY&#8230; we just may have gotten into a situation where the input to our body/mind is not really appropriate for us any more, and so the body responds.</p>
<p>But you also bring up a much larger issue which I talk about with many of my friends in the healing professions&#8230; which is that &#8220;health&#8221; is not always what is right or needed for a person, and if that is the case, you can do whatever you want with them and they will not get &#8220;healthy&#8221; but they may get WELL.  We in the healing fields must begin to consider a much bigger picture of the individual &#8212; what are we here to do?  why are we who we are?  we need to consider our karma or our spiritual purpose as well as just the connection of thoughts and physiology.  As the amazing story of your Dad demonstrates, not only can we sometimes heal what cannot be cured, sometimes we can also cure what cannot be healed, by simply being true to ourselves instead of external expectations or the desires of others.  He got what he needed out of his life experience &#8212; he go to be present for a most precious moment in his family, and then it was perfectly ok with him to go.  Not only had he healed his symptoms, he &#8220;cured&#8221; for himself the idea of this physical affliction ruining things for him or taking him from the experience of his grandchild&#8217;s birth.  Death is not an illness.  It is a natural part of life.  Just as even illness can sometimes be our cure.  Often people will become sick because at a deeper psychological or emotional level they NEED some rest or attention or quiet time, and that need is greater than the need for physical health.</p>
<p>I want to encourage your readers to consider health on a more big-picture scale, and realize that if we are in balance in our minds and hearts and energies, then we can be healthy or healed even if our bodies are damaged, and the body is often almost a metaphor for what we are experience in our total being. So if something is not working so well in the body&#8230; what does that part of the body represent?  (i.e. SPINE represents support, Feet=grounding, COLON=release vs. holding on, SKIN=boundaries etc.)</p>
<p>We are what we perceive ourselves to be.  This doesn&#8217;t mean that the body isn&#8217;t real, or that you can think yourself out of any illness, but rather that the mind is always a good place to start with any challenge we are facing.  When you have control of your thoughts, you can access the full potential of your body.  And I believe that our true nature is LOVE, and so if our thoughts and actions and words are in resonance with love, we are aware and clear and truly expressing ourselves, but if our thoughts or words or actions are not in resonance with love, we have fallen asleep at the wheel.  This applies with illness as well as other areas of life.  If I can be loving with myself and my body even when my body is in pain or discomfort or danger, then I am truly awake!</p>
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		<title>By: Megan Monique</title>
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		<dc:creator>Megan Monique</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:35:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh my goodness! What a great post. Still crying. That completely clarified and resonated with me. &lt;3</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my goodness! What a great post. Still crying. That completely clarified and resonated with me. &lt;3</p>
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		<title>By: Simone da Rosa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Simone da Rosa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 19:12:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is true integrative medicine: body-mind-spirit are all called into *action* on their united behalf. I loved that story of your dad the first time you told me, Lissa. It truly spoke to me and the veracity of his dream was never one iota in doubt in my constantly going mind. He was standing still enough for both of us. Good &amp; Bad witches are both Reiki masters so there&#039;s no doubt of efficacy there, either -- so I love me some miracles. :)  Thank the Universe the only thing people have ever had tried to cure me of is my optimism. Grateful for all the work we all do - thankful you have this platform to share all this good stuff, lady. Keep on going for all our benefit!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is true integrative medicine: body-mind-spirit are all called into *action* on their united behalf. I loved that story of your dad the first time you told me, Lissa. It truly spoke to me and the veracity of his dream was never one iota in doubt in my constantly going mind. He was standing still enough for both of us. Good &amp; Bad witches are both Reiki masters so there&#8217;s no doubt of efficacy there, either &#8212; so I love me some miracles. <img src='http://www.owningpink.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Thank the Universe the only thing people have ever had tried to cure me of is my optimism. Grateful for all the work we all do &#8211; thankful you have this platform to share all this good stuff, lady. Keep on going for all our benefit!</p>
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