
Hello dearest pinkies! I thought of you all today when I heard about a poem by Mary Oliver, "The Summer Day," long a mainstay of college admissions processes and orientations. (I've pasted it at the bottom of this post.) My sister, Weez, tells me that it is my great hope in life to be employed as a professional student. She's right.
Pushing Beyond
I am a sucker for places that make us dream big, that push us beyond our limits, that stretch our imaginations and minds in ways that we never thought possible. I am a forever student, very much at home in the classroom wherever that classroom happens to be, whether I am up front teaching or happily seated in the front row soaking up all that glorious information like a sponge. So of course the big questions are my very favorites, and Mary Oliver hits on what may be my favorite question yet: "What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" Isn't that gorgeous? Makes me want to print it out 1,000 times and plaster it all over my neighborhood.
The Question
This week I have had new options unfolding for me every day. Just when I think I am set upon a course of action, some other wonderful possibility falls into my path to consider. I think I'm being tested (which is fine by me since students love tests.) I think I'm being shown a way to focus on exactly what field in life gets me most excited, education, and then also being offered a myriad of distractions that are testing my passion for it. Mary Oliver's question is like a beacon in the haze. What if we looked at every option that's thrown our way, what if we considered every road before us with this lens. What if we made choices by asking "is this what you want to do with your one wild and precious life (knowing that our lives are so short)?"
My Answer
The very thought of this takes my breath away. Our lives are so short. We have such little time here, making every day a wild and precious thing. So here is my answer to Mary Oliver, no matter how many days I have left. I'd love to hear yours!:
The Summer Day
by Mary Oliver
Who made the world?
Who made the swan, and the black bear?
Who made the grasshopper?
This grasshopper, I mean-
the one who has flung herself out of the grass,
the one who is eating sugar out of my hand,
who is moving her jaws back and forth instead of up and down-
who is gazing around with her enormous and complicated eyes.
Now she lifts her pale forearms and thoroughly washes her face.
Now she snaps her wings open, and floats away.
I don't know exactly what a prayer is.
I do know how to pay attention, how to fall down
into the grass, how to kneel down in the grass,
how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,
which is what I have been doing all day.
Tell me, what else should I have done?
Doesn't everything die at last, and too soon?
Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?
What DO you plan to do, Pinkies?
Ever the curious student,
Christa
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Beautiful, Pinkies! We are
By Lissa Rankin on Monday, 12/14/2009 at 6:34 PMBeautiful, Pinkies! We are your witnesses. I believe your dreams will come true.
love this poem, love the
By Jenn (not verified) on Monday, 12/14/2009 at 6:13 PMlove this poem, love the post what do I plan to do with this wild and precious life? I plan to sing my heart out I plan to enjoy myself thoroughly no matter what I plan to live inside out I plan to be conscious as much as possible I plan to give back, to generate love on the planet I plan to write myself into a story I plan to be curious, engaged, and follow the winding path wherever it leads me I plan to get out of the way so my kids can grow I plan to hold hands with my husband and soul mate and practise kissing passionately like we are still teenagers I plan to believe in magic :)
Christa- Thanks for your
By shannon (not verified) on Saturday, 12/12/2009 at 7:23 PMChrista- Thanks for your mindful, inspiring, and celebratory post!
On a simple level, I want to continue living boldly, fully and freely in the present moment.
I want to INHALE and EXHALE life.
I want to share, connect and grow with others looking to go deeper.
I want to live life with a beginner's mind, laugh a lot, and always, always, always DANCE.
I want to make things that inspire others.
I want to be a creative explorer, compassionate and kind.
I want to paint, to teach, to guide, to learn.
I want to teach my son how to connect and trust his intuition, inner strength and wisdom.
I want to grow, EVERY day.
I want to love with an open heart.
I plan to use this one wild
By Lissa Rankin on Saturday, 12/12/2009 at 12:41 PMI plan to use this one wild and precious life to help people get their mojo back. Life's too short not to live it with joy, radiance, and vitality. I want to dance, to celebrate, to love, to LIVE. I also want to help heal my profession- the broken health care system that has forgotten that this is our life's work, to help people heal so they can get on with getting their mojo back. It seems to me that the whole profession has lost its mojo- so how can we help others?
I also plan to do everything within my power to give my family a beautiful, rich, fulfilling, loving life experience. I want my daugther to grow up knowing how precious she is- and I want each one of you Pinkies to feel the same way, because that's how I see all of you. You are each delicious, exquisite human beings deserving of love, happiness, and sparkly, radiant, blissful lives.
Is that too much to ask? Thank you for this stimulating post, sweet Christa. As always, what you write resonates.
I plan to - Be an inspiring
By Sharni (not verified) on Saturday, 12/12/2009 at 12:16 PMI plan to - Be an inspiring Mama by living true to my authentic self - follow my heart and not my head - write, connect - live - be! Great article!