
Greetings Pinkies! Please welcome back the extraordinary Tama Kieves, author of This Time I Dance! Creating the Work You Love (the first read of the Pinkie Book Club). Enjoy this month's message, filled with hope, light, energy, and a whopping amount of Pink energy. Thank you Tama - love to you, oh sister goddess of mojo.
Since it's the holiday season, I wanted to write about "light."
The wisdom tradition of A Course in Miracles teaches us, "I am the light of the world. That is my only function. That is why I am here." When I first read that line part of me stood at attention as though its true name had been called through a fog and cobweb of centuries. The other part of me felt screwed.
At the time, I looked around at my life of half-written manifestos, unused yoga videos, and abrupt tectonic shifts of doubt and fear, and thought humanity could definitely benefit from a more reliable guide. But I have come to see that limitation is spirit calling my name. Limitation puts pins in my sofa and lumps in my pillow so that I do not fall asleep in my life. Limitation calls me to seek for strength, focus, achievement, and liberating powers I did not know I had. And, in the end, limitation gifts me with a one-of-a-kind credential in this world. It's because as I come to experience freedom in the midst of defeated circumstances, I become a hope and light to others.
We, who are questioning our lives and our abilities, are the light of the world. We will be a beacon of comfort, hope and direction to those who need us. We are in the soup, but it is healing broth. We are the ones who are learning to find joy and full expression in the midst of bruised conditions. Every spiritual tradition teaches us that freedom is not being liberated once the job comes through, the check comes in or the skinny jeans fit. Freedom is learning how to be at peace no matter what, no matter when.
Our world is changing. The old ways are falling apart. Some talk about being in a revolutionary evolution of consciousness. We are the ones. We are the ones who are discovering our sacred resources and responses and bringing them to the table. We are the ones who write poems or sing praises to the divine, even as the stock market crumbles. Our dark days and stumbles are our training grounds. We are learning how to recognize a magnitude that is never threatened or taken away. We are discovering the river of faith in the dryness of our desert. We are the ones. We may not get it right every single day or even for weeks on end, but we are the ones.
Your pain is your relentless guru. How do you gain instruction from the sting? How do you resist the urge to curse it, deny it, or lie down in a ball for a thousand years? How do you love yourself? How do you forgive yourself? How do you sit down right now and trust the perfection of where you are? This is the juncture of your freedom. This life is not about just sweeping the kitchen one more time, or sending in a resume. It's about feeding the wild blue bird in your heart on berries not of this world. It's about feeding the wild blue bird so that it flies free no matter what.
I do not wish you pain or suffering. But I know that pain will cause you to seek freedom and freedom will teach you who you are and why you're here. You are the light of the world, and you have love, talent, and healing to offer us. Because of the sand, the oyster yields the pearl. Peacocks grow their signature colorful feathers by eating thorns. "What is to give light, must endure burning," wrote Viktor Frankl, who taught about how he found liberation, through mental focus, in the harshest hours of living in a concentration camp. And Buddhist nun Pema Chodron says, "Only to the extent that we expose ourselves over and over to annihilation can that which is indestructible be found in us." You are the light of the world. And it's pain that reminds you, like a ferocious drill sergeant, to abandon your useless definitions of security, and penetrate the limitless grace within you.
We may not have easy lives at this time. But it's not because we're failing, falling, or inadequate. It's because our souls demand healing more than coping, soaring more than just reaching cruising altitude. We are the teachers, healers, visionaries, social entrepreneurs and architects of the coming bright times. We are the sensitive ones, the canary in the mines. We have never truly been fit for this world. That's why we are the ones who will change it.
We will change it with our compassion. We will change it with our twigs of peace. We will change it by sitting in our dark corners until the pain passes and transmutes into new energy that can sustain the rest of our lives-- and we have a new stronghold to offer our brothers and sisters.
We will turn darkness into hope, as humanity has always done. We will prove that pain passes and leaves strong alchemy in its wake. We will run a new mile, inspire new actions, bring clean water to the needy, or paint images of wonder and faith. We will find our unique way to channel inexhaustible strength to hungry conditions. We will bring the new into the world by expanding our minds, communing with our creativity, and opening our boundless hearts. We are in the study halls now. Many of us are getting ready for our certifications.
We are the light of the world. We are the ones who have mercy for others. We are the ones who lend a hand. We are the ones who share a bit of writing, a dance, a reiki session, a vibrant expression filled with courage and forgiveness. We are the ones who question limitation and habits and demonstrate the raw and formidable power of love and alignment with our source. We are the ones who believe there is enough here to work with and we are about the business of working with it. Jesus walked on water. We may be doing something far more electrifying in these times. We are walking in this world.
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In this coming year, and every year, I dream of a world where everyone's talents are cherished, honored, and put to use in the business of uplifting humanity. I thank each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart for all your faith and growth this year. And on a personal note, I am so very grateful for all your love and support. It's your emails, your sharing this work, your coming to workshops, and just knowing you're ‘out there' that keeps me siding with my own strength and light. I am so touched by all of you. I wish all of you a beautiful, holy holiday season filled with grace, authenticity, and love, and the birth of wild, new inspiration.
Love and blessings,
Tama
Tama J. Kieves is an honors graduate of Harvard Law School who left her practice with a large corporate law firm to write and to embolden others to live their most fulfilling lives. She is the bestselling author of THIS TIME I DANCE! Creating the Work You Love and is a sought-after speaker and career coach who has helped thousands world-wide to discover and live their true work in the world. Visit her at www.ThisTimeIDance.com and sign up for free inspiration and support through her monthly e-newsletter. Want to find your calling? Get Tama’s Free Report right now on “Finding Your Calling” at www.ThisTimeIDance.com.
©Copyright 2009 Tama J. Kieves. All rights reserved.
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Yes, Tama. THANK YOU! You are
By Lissa Rankin on Saturday, 12/19/2009 at 7:06 AMYes, Tama. THANK YOU! You are a light in our world- and you inspire all of us to be the same for others. Namaste, sister.
I received this in my inbox
By Leslee Horner (not verified) on Saturday, 12/19/2009 at 6:37 AMI received this in my inbox yesterday as I subscribe to the newsletter. It is such a beautiful message and reminder! Right after I read it, a friend reached out to me feeling very down, I forwarded it to her immediately and knew it was the perfect thing to share with her in the moment.
Thanks Tama for your beautiful words and encouragement for all of us!
ooh, yeah, what joy said.
By Emily (not verified) on Saturday, 12/19/2009 at 5:56 AMooh, yeah, what joy said. totally. beautiful, amazing, and definitely feels like you were speaking just to me and happen to know exactly where i'm at on this journey in this moment. i ordered your book the day before it became the book club selection and can't wait to dive in. i especially love your gratitude for limitation and pain, and how that fuels our hope. love it. perfect timing. thank you!
Whew, Tama, halfway through
By Joy Mazzola on Friday, 12/18/2009 at 8:50 AMWhew, Tama, halfway through this I realized I'd stopped breathing. That's how powerfully this your words hit me. I know you wrote this for all of us ... all us canaries ... but I felt like it was a message straight from the Universe just for me. I find myself without adequate words to express just how seen I feel, and how honored and eager I am to step into (or step further into) my purpose as someone who will transform the world -- largely by just allowing it all to be. Thank you for this powerful reminder, this challenge, and this gift. And thank you for being such a beautiful conduit of mystical energy and highest truth. Love to you.
Tama, you rock, sister. It's
By Lissa Rankin on Friday, 12/18/2009 at 8:05 AMTama, you rock, sister. It's so easy to forget that we ARE the light of the world, that we have divinity within us, if only we can get out of our own way. Thank you for the reminder.
Thanks so much for this! I
By Tammy Stanwood (not verified) on Friday, 12/18/2009 at 7:54 AMThanks so much for this! I can't wait to read your book and subscribe to your newsletter. I love this: "Freedom is learning how to be at peace no matter what, no matter when." I've been learning how to do this in the past months at work, where everything is changing all the time and I continually question my ability to keep up. Everything in this article really spoke to me. Thanks.