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Random Acts Of Kindness: The Magical Eyes Tour Begins

Megan Monique Harner's picture
The Guadalupe Mountains

The Guadalupe Mountains



Dear Pinkies, We’re proud to share the first official post of the Magical Eyes Tour upon which Pink Lovemuffin Extrordinaire Megan Monique Harner embarked yesterday. And wouldn’t you know it? Our Lovemuffin is already encountering miracles. Check in frequently to the Pink Posse’s Pink Effect page, where Megan will be posting regularly from the road. Enjoy reading about her first adventure – and be sure to read to the end for an opportunity to contribute to the magic. Thank you Megan, and drive on safely and courageously, surrounded by our love and support …

The Journey Begins

I left Red Oak, Texas yesterday morning (February 16, 2010) at 9:30 a.m. I hugged my Aunt Doris goodbye, loaded Jack the Dog in the car and took the first stride in my long journey across the United States for The Magical Eyes Tour. My head was swarming with uncertainties and fears. My stomach was fluttering with butterflies and a bit of nausea. “There was no turning back now,” I thought. “I have Pleaped and nothing is before me now but the open road.”
 

Jack boggled at the site of mountains

Jack boggled at the site of mountains



My first stop was El Paso, Texas to visit with my dear friend, Johnny. He agreed to house me for a couple days before I take off to my next destination. On the way there, my GPS somehow led me along the back roads, which were incredibly beautiful: a scenic drive through the Guadalupe Mountains and hills.

A Strange Route

However, the route was also a little nerve-racking - I was out IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE. No cars, no people, no animals, no stores and certainly no gas stations for as far as I could see. For reasons beyond my understanding, I had decided to not stop of gas when my tank was at the halfway mark at the last Stripes gas station I’d passed. I suppose I figured there would be another pump before the arrow landed on the “E.” WRONG.

Open Road

I searched on my GPS for the nearest fuel station. It was 38.9 miles away from where I was. My low fuel light had already come on, but I had faith in trusty “Sophia the Kia.” She had lasted me far beyond the low-fuel line before.

I Made It!

Just as the last drops of fuel were being burned in my engine, I pulled up to an old, run-down gas station, with old-school pumps and an 80-year-old man hooked up to an oxygen tank and smoking a cigarette with yellow finger nails behind the cash register. You could say it was the typical “scary movie” kind of atmosphere.

Mounds of Sand and Dirt

The man told me to pump my gas and come inside to pay afterwards. So I did- and for some reason my gut told me to stop at $20.00. I went inside to pay. He slid my debit card - DECLINED. He slid it again on credit - DECLINED. I started to panic. I said, “So what are my options here? Can I write you a check for tomorrow?” (I knew my check hadn’t cleared the bank just yet, although my card had worked that morning.) He said, “Nope, I don’t take checks, but I can call the cops.” My heart sank, tears began to fill my eyes and I hurriedly said, “Let me go see if I can dig some change out of my car.”

A Stranger's Kindness

I found $14.00. As the pit in my stomach grew bigger and deeper, a cowboy pulled up in his huge pickup truck and horse trailer. I said, “this is so embarrassing, but can I borrow $5?” I explained the story to him and he agreed to help me. I said, “Can I hug you or something?” He gave me his card instead and told me to find him and pay him back.

I can’t remember the last time I had to rely on the kindness of strangers to save my life. All I know is that without that cowboy, I would most likely be in jail right now. There is no doubt in my mind that the Angels, you Pinkies and God were watching over me last night.
 

I had never been happier to see city lights!

I had never been happier to see city lights!



A Magical Eyes Experiment

It gave us a Magical idea. What if a bunch of Pinkies sent the Cowboy a note that said, "Thanks for helping my friend Megan out of a bind on February 16. Your generosity means more than you know."? What if a few of us threw in a few bucks to pay him back? How would being acknowledged and rewarded this way make him think about kindness to strangers, or inspire him to pay it forward? If you're moved to participate in this particular Pink Effect experiment, we'll post more information on the Pink Effect page on the Posse Forum.

In the meantime, what about you Pinkies? Can you remember the last time you helped out a stranger? Or relied upon the kindness of one?

And I’m just warming up,

Megan Monique

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Megan Monique Harner's picture

Joanne, Thank you for taking

Joanne, Thank you for taking the time to send the Cowboy a note. I have since heard from The Cowboy's wife. Her note was a blessing in itself expressing gratitude for receiving thank you notes from California to Ireland. If we can keep them coming, I can only imagine how much more magical this experience will become for all of us.

Thank you!

PS. Know that your "free spirited" child is out to discover something wonderful. I only wish that through the times of turbulence there can be honorable lessons learned as well. I, myself, am working to make the most out of every situation I am handed.

Thank you for reading my story.

Joanne's picture

As a mother of a free spirit

As a mother of a free spirit I find your experience frightening but also wonderful. I am a firm believer in paying it forward. That gentleman was a kind, honorable human being. He probably knows the value of a "random act of kindness". I too would like to send him a thank you, showing him how much others in this world appreciate kindnesses. There are quite a few of us out there, probably more than is realized. Kudos for sharing this with those who appreciate it. Safe trip.

Megan Monique Harner's picture

Karen, I am so glad you have

Karen, I am so glad you have followed up with where I am and what I am doing. Thank you for your comment. Much love to you!

Karen's picture

Hey Megan! I love the blog

Hey Megan!

I love the blog and the experience that you are having/sharing with us. I'm in for sending the cowboy a thank you.

I am so thrilled with your life since you left Austin. Thanks for keeping me in your loop.

Love, Karen

Megan Monique Harner's picture

Thank you so much Love

Thank you so much Love bubbles! YOU are amazing.

Donna's picture

I love it!!!! I'm glad you

I love it!!!! I'm glad you are so far having a great journey! I will definately send $5 to him too. I will look tonight and get his address. What a totally awesome idea!

Megan, you are such an amazing person. I hope the trip only gets better.

Lissa Rankin's picture

Siena and I just made a Pink

Siena and I just made a Pink card for the cowboy- and mailed it with a $5 bill. Meg, my darling, you ROCK!

Blessings as you travel the path, Lissa

Megan Monique Harner's picture

You guys are all SO great!

You guys are all SO great! Thank you for helping me repay the kindness to this wonderful Cowboy. I couldn't do it BIG enough without you. :)

Beth, that is GREAT! You are a rockstar!

amy's picture

Megan, I love the thought of

Megan, I love the thought of you asking the cowboy for 5 bucks, and of him knowing that the only REAL choice for him was a solid YES! He will be repaid his money, and the simple act of kindness he showed you will bring him kindness in return. That's just the way it works.

This one I know deep in my bones. Thanks for bringing it into our Pink consciousness again. And count me in on telling the cowboy how much we appreciate him!

Big hug to you, Amy

Beth Wilson's picture

How awesome Megan! and in

How awesome Megan! and in answer to your question..Wednesday about 1 p.m. i was coming out of a session with my favorite shaman and a lady called out, can u give me a jump, i said sure if you have the cables.. a gentleman appeared to hook us up..and we got her car started.. i drove the durango in reverse half a block down a one way street lol..in middle of all that snow in DC. her little girl just kept staring at me but waved when they left! I had to ask for a "jump" just 3 weeks earlier at the grocery store and a stranger in a blue car helped me...sooo the universe let me return the favor to someone else!

Heather Rae's picture

Megan, I love this story!

Megan, I love this story! Your idea for sending notes and a few dollars to the cowboy is fabulous - I will definitely be joining in on that. :) I'm loving hearing about your trip - can't wait to hear more!

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