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Loving Yourself & Your Wrinkles: All the Wrinkled Ladies Video

Lissa Rankin's picture


Check out this video! I laughed out loud. Thanks to Elissa Stein, who is writing her new book: WRINKLE: The Cultural History of Aging, for turning me onto it!


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Lissa Rankin's picture

Sue, don't give in! It's your

Sue, don't give in! It's your hair, your body, YOUR LIFE! I can't wait to see you with silver foxiness!

Own it, baby. You're beautiful.

Sue's picture

Can someone find (or do) a

Can someone find (or do) a video like this on gray hair? I'm 47 and soooooo want to OWN my "silver foxiness," to the chagrin of my family, friends, and co-workers. Thus, I'm off to see the hair dresser, when in reality I'd rather let my locks go gray, save the money, and get botox.

Lavonne's picture

Just filled out the

Just filled out the survey...loved the video :)

Stacey's picture

I did Elissa's survey! It was

I did Elissa's survey! It was fun! s

Lissa Rankin's picture

Yes. Please help my friend

Yes. Please help my friend Elissa with her survey! I did it. Will you please help? It's all about shining a light on how we age. Let's help a fellow Pinkie!

Elissa's picture

I'd LOVE to know more about

I'd LOVE to know more about what you guys are thinking/feeling about aging. I've got a survey going for WRINKLE, my new book, and your input would be most appreciated: http://bit.ly/cmOuRE

Caren's picture

Simply the Best!!! Especially

Simply the Best!!! Especially for someone in my line of work. I love this.

Sophie Lumen's picture

Yay! Are 50+ Pinkies on a

Yay! Are 50+ Pinkies on a roll or WHAT? This is SO in the air: check out and contribute to The Art of Aging :)XOXO Sofi

jane's picture

HA made me snort - no amount

HA made me snort - no amount of cream could've fixed these saggy babies...

Lissa Rankin's picture

Oh yeah, baby. SMILING at

Oh yeah, baby. SMILING at you, Beth!

Beth's picture

I love my wrinkles!

I love my wrinkles! especially my crows feet because they remind me of my Nana. When I was little, I loved how she could "smile" with her eyes & couldn't wait until I could do it, too.

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THIS IS AWESOME Hail Elissa

THIS IS AWESOME Hail Elissa Stein.... What her video points to and what so much of my journey is is really seeing our wholehood and knowing that WE are so much more than bodies and eye color and hair color and skin...and that expression matters so much but beauty is all about where our hearts are..the motives we live..the substance we're about....

She's gonna get tons of praise for this effort...go her. love it...thank you so much lissa for finding her or visa versa...

Every woman I've ever known who embraces botox and plastic surgery knows that it's a bandaid.... Until the heart is sooo at peace with inner.....and trusts that journey, well, the search continues...

We can all be doing so much more to love ourselves and to help all our lives touch do the same.

HUGS to all :)

Stacey's picture

Oh, I love that! If only we

Oh, I love that! If only we could all see each other with the eyes of a 5 year-old! But, of course, that's what your Magical Eyes campaign is all about! Thanks so much for that!!! Much love, s

Lissa Rankin's picture

Awesome Stacey! Makes me

Awesome Stacey! Makes me think of a friend's son. He was about 5 and I was staying as a houseguest, and when I walked in the door, wearing yoga clothes, he grabbed my ass and said, "You have great chub!" with this huge grin on his face. His mom (my college roommate) was horrified and apologized immediately. She said, "You've got to forgive him. He does that with his baby sister, and he means it as a total compliment. He grabs her cheeks and her butt and he loves chub. But I'm trying to teach him it's not kosher to do this with grown women."

But I came to see my butt in a different way after Win told me I've got great chub. What if our wrinkles are the same? They're just great marks of a life well lived....

Stacey's picture

Oh my goodness, I've got lots

Oh my goodness, I've got lots of wrinkles! My 5 year-old son often asks me to exaggerate a smile or a frown in order to play up my wrinkles because he says he loves to feel my "bumps."

I attended an event with Byron Katie and she applied the Work (www.thework.com) to a man who said his stressful thought was that his girlfriend is no longer attractive to him because she has wrinkles.

Her process includes something called the "turnaround"-- so she asked him to turn around the statement "My girlfriend has wrinkles. I don't want to have a girlfriend with wrinkles" to "My thinking has wrinkles. I don't want my thinking to have wrinkles." -- which he agreed was as true as his original thought.

I want to remember that statement if I ever stop seeing my bumps with the loving eyes of my child. Much love, s

Lissa Rankin's picture

Me too! I've got some of my

Me too! I've got some of my own now, and I'm owning them. No Botox for me, thank you very much. I've earned those wrinkles! The more we accept what is and love ourselves just the way we are, the more we set the example for others to do the same. Thanks for loving wrinkles with me, Stacey! xoxo

Stacey's picture

Awesome! I loved this! I want

Awesome! I loved this! I want to see more Wrinkled Ladies! Thanks so much for sharing! Love, love, love, s

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