Sometime between the birth of my first child & perimenopause, I missed the memo: Stupid Euphemisms for Vagina.

You’ve likely heard me speak on the importance of scheduling sex dates.

These are dates designated just for sex: not dinner, a movie or a walk on the beach.

Just sex.

The signs are unmistakable. Women are owning sexuality in powerful and disquieting ways. Is the world ready for the future of femininity and feminism?

Years ago, I posted a playful, heart-in-cheek article about the emerging post-feminist femme fatales (PFF) on a staunchly feminist website. A PFF, I wrote, was both an “accomplished woman in all political, social, environmental and economic arenas,” and an “enchantress.” Confident and graceful, funny and committed to social justice, she wore lingerie, laughed at her whim, ate her cake and shared it, too, without counting calories or flaws.

I'm into mindf**king.