
I’m a gynecologist who once wrote a never-published memoir called “I Don’t Do Men,” so it should come as no surprise that I adore women. No - I’m not gay (though my standard "I don't do men" brush off got rid of many lecherous men in bars who hit on me with pick up lines like "Will you be my doctor?") As much as I also adore lesbians, I kind of have a thing for chest hair. And dude-shaped biker legs.
But sexual preference aside, I have ultimate respect for the awesomeness of my gender.
Women sometimes get a bad rap. We call each other “catty.” We turn each other into “frenemies.” They make movies about Mean Girls.
But I don’t see us that way. From where I stand, women rock. We BOULDER, really. And if you’re a woman, this post is for you. So please pass it on to any woman you know and love.
Why do I love women? Let me count the ways.
Tell us why you think women are fabulous. Let your voice be heard. And because women don’t hear how awesome they are nearly enough, I dare you to send this to 10 fabulous women you love. Post it on Facebook. Tweet it on Twitter. Let’s send the women of this world a great big virtual hug. ((((((((((((YOU)))))))))))))
With love for my sisters everywhere,
Lissa
Lissa Rankin, MD: Founder of OwningPink.com, Pink Medicine Revolutionary, motivational speaker, and author of What’s Up Down There? Questions You’d Only Ask Your Gynecologist If She Was Your Best Friend and Encaustic Art: The Complete Guide To Creating Fine Art With Wax.
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I love Women because we
By Michelle Medina (not verified) on Monday, 10/17/2011 at 6:18 PMI love Women because we always bounce back!!
You're welcome Naware
By Lissa Rankin on Sunday, 10/16/2011 at 6:19 AMI feel you. I've had my share of challenging relationships with women as well. But the upsides of being female- and supporting the feminine- so outweigh any baggage. The older I get, the more I realize this...
Such love
Lissa
Recovering Misogynist
By Naware (not verified) on Saturday, 10/15/2011 at 8:36 PMYes, that's right I used to be a HUGE misogynist. And while I won't say I've completely healed myself of this trait (or that I will) I'm much better than I used to be. But that aside, and to play devil's advocate a bit I *do* know women who do act in less than savory ways.
BUT I L-O-V-E this post. And I *KNOW* that my feelings towards my gender have lead to a whole slew of physical issues for me and just realizing and connecting to how I felt has helped the healing process and this entry just furthers this along. Thanks for sharing love!
Hear Me Roar!
By Patrice (not verified) on Thursday, 10/13/2011 at 10:28 AMLoved this! Thanks! (you bolder, by the way)
You go LittlePhoenix!
By Lissa Rankin on Thursday, 10/13/2011 at 7:13 AMThanks for sharing your truth with us, love. You know you're safe here. And Jessica, thanks for loving on her while I was away from the computer! Way to hold space.
You all are amazing.
You rock my world.
Big big love
Lissa
*smiles*
By littlephoenix (not verified) on Thursday, 10/13/2011 at 3:18 PMThanks, Lissa. ;)
Great post, Lissa! I think
By littlephoenix (not verified) on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 4:09 PMGreat post, Lissa!
I think there are way too many reasons to love women to sum up at any one time... LOL
And with that being said, I am going to take a breath, and come out myself... I've said this in other places, but not on OP... I'm not straight. I think I'm a lesbian, or maybe bi...
Phew. I'm still breathing. :)
Thanks for this space, Lissa and everyone else at OP.
Hi littlephoenix!
By Jessica (not verified) on Thursday, 10/13/2011 at 2:28 AMGreat step, and you're still breathing ;-)... you probably have more room to breathe now - and welcome to the club of you-being-YOU! Whether I'm in love with a boy or a girl, it tends to be complicated because of me, never mind the gender of the other person ;-)), hehe. Way to go girl!
Thanks
By littlephoenix (not verified) on Thursday, 10/13/2011 at 3:18 PMAw, thanks, Jessica. :)
Thank you all for adding your feminine wisdom
By Lissa Rankin on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 1:12 PMAnd Jessica, yes, the older I get, the more I do love women. I think it gets easier as we age- less competition among women, less of that "cattiness" that can plague us in our teens/twenties. And hey, sorry about your mom.
Hugs to you all
Lissa
Mmmm.. only recently!
By Jessica (not verified) on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 12:33 PMIn my youth my Dad was the trustworthy person and my Mom the sometimes mean and bitter one, basically from my start. It warped me into confusion, insecurity and keeping a BIG distance between me and most women, but older women in particular. Now that I'm in my forties I slowly start to trust... to show myself with my vulnerabilities and although I can shake like a leaf the world has become a better place, more loving and warm and welcoming.
A beautiful post that made me think and appreciate (hey, but then I AM bisexual, hehehe).
Why I love women
By Susan Hoefer (not verified) on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 12:25 PMThank you for your inspiring posts Lissa:) I have to add my two cents in. I love the energy and intuition of women. Seems the inner world is mastered by connection with a divine source of wisdom and sensitivity to discriminate. This ability is the feminine power.... and powerful it is:)
What I love about women
By Rebecca Russell McFee (not verified) on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 11:34 AMI love women because women LISTEN!!! They listen with their hearts and their heads and their entire beings. They listen to what is said, and what is not said. They read eyes and body language and auras/energy fields. They work together to solve problems. They are not afraid to ask for help, or to admit uncertainty. They find strength in each other, and in the Earth.
Yes, women ARE brave
By Lissa Rankin on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 10:40 AMYou're so right Toby! Well said!
Thanks for putting in your two cents, love.
Hugs
Lissa
Beautiful Women
By Toby (not verified) on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 10:34 AMDearest Lissa!
As an "honorary lesbian" (conferred upon me by two wonderful women whom I am minister for their wedding this weekend), your words resonate with me, despite my (male) gender.
What makes women so lovable? Because essentially you create life by bringing us men and women into the world. And continue to do so, despite the inconvenience, pain, suffering and often loss of life, which somehow makes you wish to try this process all over again. In a word, women are brave!
Simple words, I know, but how I feel.
Keep coming out!
Love
Toby
Your post "I Love Women"
By Josie Brown, author, SECRET LIVES OF HUSBANDS AND WIVES (not verified) on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 9:50 AMBeautifully written, Lyssa!
What I've always loved about women is our ability to nurture each other, to be honest and open with each other, to be there in a pinch.
Brava!
Beautiful
By Lissa Rankin on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 8:16 AMAnd so true! Thank you sharing.
xoxo
Lissa
Beautiful
By Lissa Rankin on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 8:16 AMAnd so true! Thank you sharing.
xoxo
Lissa
Why do I love women?
By VulvaLoveLovely (not verified) on Wednesday, 10/12/2011 at 8:11 AMBecause I can't help it.
We are connected to the earth: Our monthly cycle mimics the phases of the moon and the tides
We are connected to each other: We know when other women are feeling a particular feeling. This is part of what we call women's intuition. Put two women in a home together and their menstrual cycles will sync.
We are connected to the Universe: we can feel change coming, we can feel if something is wrong or right with the ones we love, we can use our senses to make decisions. This is the final part of what we call women's intuition. This is the reason that, in the time when the world was connected to the universe priestesses were revered above all spiritual leaders.
We are strong: I have witnessed women give with in their homes with no drugs, just love and determination. I will never doubt women's innate strength as long as I live.
We are creative, it is our nature.
We are unstoppable: we are powerful and we use that power for good. We are not having a moment, we are having a revolution.
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For Women.
For The Love of Women.
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