
Tara Sophia Mohr has done it again. Be sure to visit her Wise Living blog, "Because more is possible for your life." Thanks, Tara!
I remember well the moments when I first began to turn away from my own B+ life. I began to allow room for the truth — the truth that I wasn’t fulfilled by the status quo. That the things I really loved I had long neglected.
I began, slowly, scary as it was, to articulate what I wanted my life to look like. Who I wanted to be. What I wanted to be doing.
Have I reached that perfect end state picture? No. I’m not sure it will ever happen.
Being on the road to our dreams means: We’ve found the courage to articulate them. We’ve pulled them out from being buried in our guts and spoken them, even if only to ourselves.
Being on the road to our dreams means: We’ve said: this dream is worthy. Worthy of my time, my energy, my best effort. I will host it, I will welcome it, I will keep the kindlings going for the fire.
Being on the road to our dreams means: Keeping the vision alive in our minds. Returning, again and again, to the imagined future we desire, and letting that image guide us.
Being on the road to our dreams means: We’ve said: I’m in. I’m in for this project. I will try. I will work toward it. I will be my own friend in this way.
Here’s the miraculous thing: the freedom and richness come when we step, with both feet, onto the road toward our dreams – not when we reach the destination. The joy and poignancy and aliveness enters our lives when we step on the road to our dreams, not when we realize those dreams.
That if your dream/longing is to start your own creative business, let’s say – the change in your quality of life, in the lightness of your heart, doesn’t happen when you do that. It happens when you step onto the path of commitment to owning that business, when you give voice and respect to the dream, and set about on the work of making it happen. That if your dream is to be a published author, the vitality and excitement and grace and peace don’t come when you sign the publishing contract. They come when you give yourself full permission, and your own support, to begin working toward that.
It’s about stepping onto the road of your dreams. With both feet.
Love,
Tara
Are you on your dream road? How have you commited to the journey? What does it feel like -- in your body -- to activate your dreams?
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Tara Sophia Mohr is a writer, coach, and personal growth teacher. A blogger for Huffington Post, she is also the author of the popular blog Wise Living.
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And check out the scenery!
By Amy (not verified) on Friday, 02/11/2011 at 9:41 AMLove love love this, Tara. It's such a game changer to claim our dream, to articulate who we are and what we want to be doing. Until then, we're often just shuffling along, keeping up with the masses. The moment we allow it to be included, our dream lifts us out of the ordinary. And as you point out, it doesn't much matter where we are along the trajectory toward our dream; every step along the way is infused with it.
I was thinking, as I read this, about all the unexpected and delightful things that can materialize on the road to our dreams. Things we wouldn't have experienced in our B+ lives. Things we might not have realized had magic in them in that other life. Here's to keeping watch for the gorgeous scenery along the way!
Thank you for this. Beautiful.
Love,
Amy