
In my family of entrepreneurs, I have committed the ultimate business atrocity.
It wasn’t for my lack of mentors. I remember hearing stories from my grandfather who, after coming to the United States from Poland, built a lumber business. When he didn’t know what to do with the extra lumber, he became resourceful and began making cabinets. Repeatedly, he found ways to use all his resources to excel in the world of business.
He was in the real estate business and doing quite well. There was a point, however, when he started becoming concerned with a potential housing crash. In response to that possibility, he decided to balance his business by including a rental and property management company.
Even my cousin, Erik, who owns a scuba diving charter in Maui, successfully bolstered his business by also taking people on ecological tours. In the process, he became an amazing underwater photographer.
Each of these men learned how to build a solid business and then expand that business into other areas.
“Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Build the foundation and diversify your offerings, your portfolio, and your revenue streams.”
Being a spiritual seeker, I have noticed how easy it can be to jump from spiritual tradition to spiritual tradition, looking externally for just the right fit. I remember one day Mark, the CEO of Heart of Business, telling me that although all streams lead to the ocean, it’s impossible to reach it if you keep jumping streams.
Yet, a few years ago, that’s just what I went ahead and did.
At the time I had a pretty successful coaching business with over 1000 subscribers on my ezine list and a constant flow of new clients who were getting measurable results. Then my life suddenly changed. My wife and I divorced, and I became a half-time single parent. Because this family shift was so current for me, I wanted to introduce parenting issues into my coaching.
Instead of branching off and addressing the parenting issues of small business owners and building from my solid foundation, I jumped streams and attempted to build a completely new clientele teaching compassionate communication for parents and kids. For reasons I can't now remember, I didn't think that business people would be interested.
With no safety net, little savings, and hardly any revenue, I passionately took flight only to end up smacking into the sidewalk of Bankruptcy.
Now the good news is that bankruptcy is not the end of the world, and I’ll be writing future posts on how to survive it and even thrive after it; however on this post, I’d like to share a few steps on how to avoid it.
Bankruptcy is becoming more and more common around the globe.
I’m curious to know -- what your thoughts are as a small business owner about avoiding or surviving bankruptcy? How do you keep your mojo through a bankruptcy?
Helping Small Business Owners who Want to Make a Difference and Need to Make a Profit.
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Wise Words
By Dana Theus on Friday, 11/12/2010 at 6:28 PMJason
these are wise words. So many success stories of people jumping streams make it sound easy to go into free fall and land on your feet. For some people that works, but it didn't work for me. I ended up taking your first bullet advice years ago when I explored jumping streams entirely. After over a year of virtually no work and mounting debt I took a job in my old field and began a journey of moving closer and closer to my new path by leveraging my historical talents, contacts and credibility. I'm still on that entrepreneurial journey. Even so, the possibility of bankruptcy exists as a few of those jumps have been less smooth than I would have liked, meaning that managing debt has been difficult. That said, I love my work today in ways I never did before. And I love being an entrepreneur as much as I ever have.
Thanks for sharing your story and your wisdom. And good for you for being brave and accepting what some would call failure and others would call wisdom so freely.
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By Jason (not verified) on Thursday, 11/11/2010 at 4:59 PM@Melanie, oh I can relate to the cruelest role reversal. I teach small business owners and although I've straightened out my own income and helped my clients to double and even triple their income, it has come with a walking of humbleness and humiliation. Oh sweet karma :-)
@Meghan, I'm grateful you know at an early age that you are not your parents. Here is to you breaking the lineage. Taking responsibility is the first step and consistently looking at what is so is helpful. Like @Melanie says there is no shortage and it's a relationship to giving and receiving.
@Lakenda, you always have full permission from me to repost.I was amazed when I researched the list of famous people who have filed. Also kudos to your sister to bringing compassion to a situation riddled with pain.
@Joy, I'm learning more and more - planning is essential, plans may be useful. In the business world it really boils down to business skills, clarity, and spiritual alignment.
Thank you so much
By Joy (not verified) on Thursday, 11/11/2010 at 3:00 PMJason, as someone on the threshold of launching my own business, this couldn't have come at a better time. Thank you for courageously telling your own story so that we might learn and avoid the same pitfalls. It's so comforting to me to know that I'm not the only one who hasn't mastered the financial do-si-do (and that even if I did, it doesn't mean I won't struggle), and, as Mel said, this doesn't make us any less valuable or fantastic.
I can't wait to read the next chapter. Thank you my friend.
Sending love and gratitude,
Joy xo
Thank You!!!!
By Lakenda Wallace on Thursday, 11/11/2010 at 12:26 PMYour post was so brilliantly written. I appreciate your honest look at a very difficult situation and the great guidance and insight you have given for others who may be facing this challenge personally or as a business.
My sister is a bankruptcy lawyer who prides herself on educating her clients so that bankruptcy is a once in a lifetime occurrence. Her favorite saying is that bankruptcy can be the first step towards building wealth. You can learn from it, grow from it and eventually bounce back from it.
Hats off to you. Please know that I have reposted this (with full credit and links) at my sister's blog VAConsumerNews.com. I believe your honesty and insight can help more people. Thank you! Thank You! And please, keep it coming!
Love & Blessings,
Lakenda, a.k.a. Good Witch
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By Megan Monique (not verified) on Thursday, 11/11/2010 at 8:15 AMGrowing up, I have had NO financial guidance. My father has filed bankruptcy 2-3 times in his life and each time, he looks at it as a place to start over.
Although I don't blame my parents for my irrational spending habits after high school, I see where they are and know that I do not want to go down that road. It is only this year that I am able to begin paying off my debt (which reaches about 10,000 dollars,) and I have nothing to show for it.
I so appreciate this post, with your tips and look forward to future posts. I am financially uneducated, but would very much love to flip the switch and be informed so that I can later make good choices in regards to my finances.
Thank you for sharing this Jason,
Megan
Jason
By Melanie Bates on Thursday, 11/11/2010 at 7:15 AMI don't know what it feels like to file bankruptcy as a business owner but I certainly have been there personally.
I was a Credit & Collections Supervisor for a huge corporation for a very long time. I traveled the U.S. being kind, but very hardcore, with individuals and companies that were struggling to pay their bills. My own credit rating was superb - like off the charts amazing.
Then... I got a divorce, left everything with my husband - except for some of the debt and moved to Cleveland with boxes of books. I had no forks, no mattress, I had nothing but reading material and some clothes.
No matter how hard I tried nor how hard I worked, bankruptcy eventually became inevitable and, as you can imagine, my identity was very much wrapped up in my pristine credit and my past work history. So I felt like a complete failure. As I started getting calls from Credit & Collections supervisors it felt like the cruelest role reversal and that was devastating.
What I realized is that I'm not my credit score or my failure to pay my bills. I have worth and value without unlimited credit card limits. Because I struggled financially doesn't make me a failure or less of a person.
Now it's become more about the lessons of money, which are really just like the lessons of energy. "There's plenty of money out there. They print more and more every day."
Melanie Bates
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