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Let’s Work Miracles

Lissa Rankin's picture

I already loved Jenny Lawson, a.k.a. The Bloggess. The interview she did with me about What’s Up Down There was far and away the most killer interview of my entire book tour. I mean who else but Jenny engages you in a “Vagina, Penis, Dynamite” version of “Rock, Paper, Scissors”? Yeah. She rocks.

But when I heard about the Christmas miracle she sparked on her blog, my heart grew three sizes, right along with hers. Read her story here. It will remind you of what I firmly believe: that human beings are inherently good, that deep down is not the heart of darkness but a great light within us. That we are driven more by love than by fear or greed, that we want nothing as much as to be of service, to make life matter, to have purpose, and to love one another.

The snowball effect

Jenny had a good year, so she decided to give away 20 $30 gift cards to the first 20 people who commented and told the story of their need. She has a ginormous following, so as you can imagine the 20 cards were gone in no time flat. But the 21st comment demonstrated so much need that Jenny considered buying another card. Only she didn’t have to, because the 22nd comment was someone offering to give a gift card to the 21st one.

And then the whole thing snowballed. At last glance, there were 1,200 comments, all from people in need and donors who wanted to help them. Jenny estimates that her blog community has given away $22,000 – to each other! One person even donated $1,000. Awesome-sauce.

The miracle in Pink

I have no doubt the Owning Pink community has as much need – and generosity – as any community out there. I’m not throwing down any sort of competition with my friend Jenny, but rather endeavoring to continue what she started. From what I can tell, Jenny pretty much hasn’t slept in three days. We can help relieve some of her giving burden and give back to the community that has served us all so well. Let’s be inspired by Jenny’s generous spirit, pay it forward, and demonstrate the kind of Christmas spirit I know we all have.

Here’s the plan …

I’ll start by giving away five $30 Amazon gift cards to the first five people who really, really need it this Christmas (you know who you are). Post a comment and tell us how $30 will help.  After that, I’m calling on the rest of you to help each other out. Tell us why a $30 gift card will help you and your family, and we’ll try to match you up with a donor who can help serve your need.

Are you on board? Are you in need? Or do you want to donate to a Pinkie who needs you?

Let’s do this dear ones. I believe in you.

Still in awe of Jenny,

Lissa

P.S. In order for us to give you this gift, you must include your email address! Please don't post anonymously without any contact information. Thank you!

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Comments

Anonymous's picture

Gratitude

I'm so grateful to be involved with this group.
I'm in a tight spot this year, being made redundant in Feb so I could not give as much this year but I'm working hard on being emplyed soon, so soon this hardship will be over :-)

Anonymous's picture

thanks...

Thank you. The help is more than wonderful!

Lissa Rankin's picture

You're welcome Jaime

I'm so glad you were willing to receive, sweetie. It's as important as learning to give. And one day, I know you will have more abundance in your life and you will be able to pay it forward.
Merry Christmas sweetie!
With love
Lissa

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Jaime Lyerly's picture

Thank you!

Just wanted to say thank you to Lissa and to Melanie who was the one who purchased the card for me.

It is great to be able to receive even when the guilt of it seems overwhelming. I didn't realize until I had such money problems how much I based my identity on being a GIVER and generous. So when I realized that I wasn't going to be able to do that, it throws my self esteem into that dark hole.

So thank you all for supporting me! My son will love his gift and know that it came from this loving and supportive group!
Jaime

Anonymous's picture

Gratitude

Thank you Sisters, so very much for your generous and giving spirits!
Your love inspires me.

And I'm sure my daughter thanks you too ;D

Rebecca's picture

Giving

Thanks pink ladies for opening my world up to giving. Its awesome and holds so much more meaning than christmas shopping. I think everyone who is able to give finacial help no matter how much the amount could benefit from changing tact on what they perceive as 'christmas shopping'.

Merry Christmas everybody!!

Rebecca

Lissa Rankin's picture

Another Pinkie in need

We just got this email. If there's a donor who wants to help Volante, please email Joy@Owningpink.com. Thank you dear ones!

July 2009 my husband (after getting a severe cut in pay in april of
that year) got fired. he's since been unemployed. I've been a SAHM for
the past 8+ years because it didn't make sense for me to work just to
pay day care. (fast forward) Oct. of this year was the start of
foreclosure on our home. we just couldn't keep up. all the other bills
were piling up too. I'd talked with my parents and they said they'd
help. they don't have much either, they're both on SSI because of
various disabilities. They said we could move back in with them..800
miles away. I didn't know that when i'd sent my kids on summer
vacation with them, the'd never see their home again. So now, for the
2nd holiday year in a row, its only the grace and generosity of a
friend/stranger that is putting a gift under our tree for my 4 kids.
13,8,6,23 mo.(2 girls 2 boys respectively) It breaks my heart that
because my girls have a different father, they're going to see more
under those trees. I've never put emphasis on gifts, but i do strive
to get my kids at least one thing they've wanted through out the year.
I've always taught them it's what comes from the heart that counts.
they love to make stuff for others. This year, all my craft stuff is
in storage because moving so i can't even make them something. I did
manage to squeak them some necessities, like clothes and pj's. one
gift each. My 8yo actually asked me yesterday, "Mom, why is there only
one present for me?" i had to tell her "That's all there is this
year". I know that they'll love what they got. my kids are awesome
like that.
I didn't feel it right to be asking, because there are so many people
worse off than i am. Michelle told me to come to here and try asking.
she felt bad that i couldn't go into the store and bring something
home for my kids right away. I know that they'll understand (or not
know the difference in the case of my almost 2yo) that this year it's
just not gonna be much. I can't even get a gift for my husband, and
i'm sure he's upset that he can't get even a small trinket for me.
It's not a problem to for us to do without, we've been doing it for
almost 2 years.
Anyway, this is my story in brief. I understand if i'm too late. it's ok.
thanks for your time.
~Volante

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Ruthie's picture

Such love

I want to take this opportunity to thank Lissa and Joy for facilitating this share-fest. Pressing the "send" button as I shared my gift felt so amazing. Big plug for anyone out there who hasn't given and wants to... It is the one of the best gift I have given...to myself!!!

Lissa Rankin's picture

From the depths of my heart

Gayle & Judith- THANK YOU, from the bottom of my heart, for giving us the opportunity to remember the true holiday spirit, to give back when we are blessed and to receive when we are in need. Just imagine if we all did this on a grander scale, in a personal way, if we could just open our hearts both ways- the giving and the receiving- and not judge whether one is better than the other.

I suspect I speak for the other donors when I say that you have given us a gift of equal or even greater value- the gift of remembering that life matters, that we are all part of a greater fabric, that giving is a blessing, and that once upon a time, a small baby boy was born in a manger to remind us that love matter more than any religion.

And thank you to all the rest of you who have made these small acts of kindness possible.

Merry Christmas and happy holidays to you all
Lissa

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Gayle Ellison-Davis's picture

Thank you!

I want to express my comfort and joy. With my gift I ordered a gift for both my husband and daughter. My first chakra is humming! in safety and bliss and I haven't felt this faithful in quite sometime.
It may seem like a small thing, but this is actually quite huge.
... and I agree with 'letting the walls down' and 'taking a deep breath' ... asking for help is hard and somehow speaks of ourselves as some sort of 'failure', which is never true ... but this, this Lissa is empowering on such a deep but level.
I have always been in love with Women for Women International and here, Lissa, you have brought it to the home scale.
Thank you so much. You are an inspiration and I will only move forward in and with this love.

Merry Christmas ... Merry Christmas :}

Lissa Rankin's picture

Bless you Monica!

Thank you so much for helping Jaime!

Okay, who's next to help out Judith? Judith, will you email joy@owningpink.com and will one of our donors (Rebecca, Susan, Ruthie, Melanie?) also email Joy and comment here that you'd like to be on point for Judith?

Thank you all so much for taking care of our own...
Love you!

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Judith Kuegler Webster's picture

thank you!

Judith and her boys are feeling very blessed this morning!

Judith Kuegler Webster's picture

taking a deep breath....

asking for help is more difficult then I thought it would be.... When I read Lisa's email in my inbox this morning I cried. I am a single mother with two little boys. As part of the pinky community many of you have seen my art work but I have never said much about my personal life. I have a son with autism who is unable to eat solids and attend school on a regular basis. I take care of my boys by working as a artist but things have been so challenging this year. Child support is nonexistent, my family is from Germany and I often feel so isolated during the holiday times (my children don't have passports because their father refuses his signature). Any help would be greatly appreciated!
love and blessings,
Judith

Lissa Rankin's picture

UPDATE

We've given away the 5 gift cards from Owning Pink and are now ready to hook up those of you who have offered to donate with those requests still coming in. So bear with us. Anyone receiving this who wants to provide for Jaime?

And bless you Jaime for asking for what you need.

To anyone who is in need this Christmas, please know that this is only temporary. My sincere belief is that you will be able to do this for someone else some year in the future. LOVE LOVE LOVE!

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Monica W.'s picture

The Gift of Giving

I'd be thrilled to help Jaime (or anyone else for that matter)! I'll contact Joy (such an appropriate name) so she can connect the dots. What a wonderful pink idea Lissa!!! I absolutely hate the idea of children going without presents Christmas morning.

Jaime Lyerly's picture

Letting down the walls and asking for help

I have to comment on this because it is too amazing not to put something.

This last four months has been particularly hard for me, and I am learning the art of asking for help when I need it.

I went from being a student, mother, artist, blogger and generous giver of my time/energy/money to being in this jelly state where I don't know who I am any more. When my partner of 10 years moved to go to school 9 hours away from me, I fell into a deep depression as I had to figure out how to be a self-supporting "single" mother of my 14 year old son again.

This lack of support made it even harder to continue to go to my job as sickness took over my daily life. In October, I ran out of paid sick time, so I was $200 short on my bills. The November I was out sick again for almost the whole month so I was $1000 short on my bills, and started going negative on my bank. December came and I am at the point where I cannot pay my rent. I am maxed out on my credit cards, and now even the increase I got on my credit card has been used yesterday to fix my car's alternator that just went out. My last credit card money was spent on some food boxes so my family can eat. The stress of having to deal with all these money issues is so huge.

I have told my son that I have no money to buy any presents this year, but a gift card would make it where I could get something for my son. I know that my situation is temporary and that I will be able to back to "normal" by February. But in the spirit of LETTING DOWN MY WALLS and being wholly myself, I would be honored to receive gift card to help buy a present for my son. Either way, I am just grateful to share my story with this community.

Jaime Lyerly
jalyerly@hotmail.com

Lissa Rankin's picture

Please, dear ones, include your email!

If you're in need or want to donate, we can't help you if you don't provide us with your email. If you wish to remain anonymous, please email joy@owningpink.com. Thank you!

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Anonymous's picture

I could use a little help.

I'm living in low-income housing, fighting a terrible case of Endometriosis and going through surgeries. I have no job and no money. It would be great to have some help! This is beautiful and I hope I can be the one to give next year! Owning Pink has been such a blessing to me!

Ruthie's picture

Want to give

Love this!!!

I would like to donate five $30 giftcards. Just let me know how.
Warmly,
Ruthie

Lissa Rankin's picture

How to Donate

Gayle, you're SO welcome, from all of us.

And to those who are wanting to donate, please email joy@owningpink.com and she'll try to hook up those who want to donate with those who are in need.

BLESS YOU ALL!!!! (My heart runneth over)...

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Susan's picture

How Do I Donate?

How can I donate?

Lissa Rankin's picture

Those in need

Will you please email joy@owningpink.com with your name & address? And may these gifts bring you peace...
With so much love
Lissa

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Gayle Ellison-Davis's picture

[in tears] Thank you. (bows)

[in tears] Thank you. (bows) Namaste ... your kindness will not be forgotten :)

May this Christmas and Solstice find you and yours and all your endeavors blessed and wrapped in glorious beauty, as you are. Here's to your future too ... may it be bodacious and true. :)

<3 Gayle

Gayle Ellison-Davis's picture

:)

I have been out of work for nearly 3 years [next April] I was 'pushed' out so as not to cost my employer any further money paying out benefits to me.
All this time I have received no benefits.
At first we lived off my credit cards. Then I received some help from my dad [until his pension was cut some] and had an 'off books' personal assistant job with a friend for a bit until her job was put into limbo.
All things being said, nothing has lasted forever due to everyone being in the same financial crunch boat.

I am working very hard to get the ball rolling on my personal Reiki and Flower Essence practice, but this is slow.

I had some money squirreled away to purchase gifts for my daughter and husband [only. everyone else agreed to phones calls and beaming love] and then the town decided to threaten arrest and suspending my license [!!!] if i didn't get my cats ... my cats ... licensed. I did this. But there went my Christmas gifting plus some ...

I spent yesterday heart broken and fighting with my Ego and shooing the thoughts of being useless and stupid away. [like freakin' gnats!!] I keep wondering if i have anything I can re-gift to them but they are both asking for such modest things it seems like grasping to give them just 'something'. I resolved that gifts will come late as it's more important that I buy food.

Then I woke to see the moon. I sat in my bed with my daughter and her cat. snuggled and whispering and just staring at the magic happening in the heavens. I lit a candle and sent out a prayer to Divine Order.

Woke up this morning and commenced my chores and planning for a Reiki Circle/Solstice Evening that I am uncertain anyone is coming to [part of a introductory offering thru Reiki Flower] ... it seems i am infusing tea lights and lighting them mostly on my own for all those invited but cannot attend. Which is fine ... I am a vessel for Source and it is my pleasure and grace to Love ... but still, my heart is heavy as the child within hurts for what doesn't feel like Christmas to me.

Having my coffee ... checking my Fb and emails ... I see this ... again. I saw it yesterday and decided I was not someone in need. Then the nudge came ... so here I am.

Nothing will happen if I don't try, right?

with love and thoughts of paying it forward as soon as I am able ...

Gayle

Anonymous's picture

One Day

What you're doing here is AWESOME!
Accept my gratitude, and best wishes!

I dream of being the one donating, not again being the one asking for help :/
And I'm proclaiming 2011 as the year that I will be the one.
So there.

However, I'm steadily working at crafting my 5 children's gifts as best I can.
I am disabled, and my husband has been out of work for 15 months, so we're living on tiny pensions.
The kids know that we don't have money for gifts, and they have come to expect handmade gifts, but even those cost too much this year.

I'm almost finished with the gifts I have in process, but there is one more thing....and I hope this doesn't sound totally frivolous... my 14 year old daughter has just asked for "pretty panties" :)
She says "you know, Mom---the ones that don't come in a package".
Pretty panties are not really within my budget, but I know how easily something like this can make a girl feel good, and she's at that age...you know that age...when a girl needs all the self-esteem she can muster.

So, if anyone finds this simple request worthy, I'd certainly be grateful.
Thanks, all, for your kind consideration.

Rebecca's picture

Gift Cards

I would love to donate a $30 gift card to someone much in need at this time of year. I am based in the UK so how do I this?

Can someone email me please to offer some advice how I do this?

Thanks - sending much pinkness out there at this time of year.

Lissa Rankin's picture

We got you covered Anonymous

Thank you for writing to Melanie. We're sending your gift card tonight. I hope you can use it in time for Christmas.
Blessings
Lissa

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Lissa Rankin's picture

Dear anonymous with the autistic child

I would love to help you. And the gift card is yours. But you didn't include your email so I can't reach you! Please email melanie.owningpink@gmail.com with your name, email, and address and we will make sure you get your gift card.

Bless you honey. And Merry Christmas.
With love and faith that things will get better,
Lissa

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Anonymous's picture

Really need

I am the mother of 4 children and two are autistic. They are my life. Their father lost his job of 10 years in June of 2009. We lost everything from our rented house to our car. We through everything we had and sold most of anything of value. This has been hard on our kids, but we are together and are making it. My husband just got hired at a job in November making $14 an hour. $50K less than he was making, but we are thankful and trying yo play catch up. $30 would help buy my son with autism, (13 yo.)a keyboard, mouse, and a DVD. The other children can understand cutting back, but he is severe and doesn't understand why all this is happening. Peace, hope, and love to all.

Anonymous's picture

My child was climbing on me as I wrote previous post, edited

I am the mother of 4 children and two are autistic. They are my life. Their father lost his job of 10 years in June of 2009. We lost everything from our rented house to our car. We went through everything we had and sold most of anything of value. I have medical issues due to the stress of keeping up with all that comes from autism and I am unable to work outside of the home, at this time. This has been hard on our kids, but we are together and are making it. My husband just got hired at a job in November making $14 an hour. $50K less than he was making, but we are thankful and trying to play catch up. $30 would help buy my son with autism, (13 yo.)a keyboard, mouse, and a DVD. The other children can understand cutting back, but he is severe and doesn't understand why all this is happening. Peace, hope, and love to all.

Melanie Bates's picture

Me too,

I can donate 2 $30 gift cards!

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