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Start Your Year From Self Love: 4 ?s To Making Heart & Soul Goals, Not Pressure-Filled Goals

Christine Arylo's picture

WATCH THIS VIDEO & GET THE 4 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR HEART AND SOUL SO YOU CREATE A YEAR YOU LOVE!

It can be hard to hear your heart and soul – it can feel daunting, and you can get stuck in your brain real fast. And you can also short circuit yourself because of fear. Which is why I invented this AWESOME LOVE FILLED GAME for finding your Heart & Soul Goals, and creating a year motivated by LOVE not pressure, fear or lack.

I’ve been playing this game all week — with Noah, at dinner with friends, and last night we had a Dream Party where we all played it and then painted our heart and soul desires on our windows! And now I will share it with you (window painting is optional).

The game is based on 4 core questions that help you get into your heart and soul DESIRES (desire means “from the stars” – in other words you co-create with Spirit instead of from want, lack or fear).

Here are the questions:

1. What do you desire to DO in 2014? (these are actions you desire to take)
2. What do you desire to HAVE in 2014? (these are things you are in relationship to – people, material things)
3. Who do you desire to BE in 2014? (this is about who you CHOOSE to be in the world this year)
4. What do you desire to FEEL in 2014 ? (choose three words that culiminate how you want to feel – your heart and soul work on the feeling level)

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To bring these to life say them out loud with a friend, or get pieces of paper and free flow write the answers, using the questions as statements –

“In 2014, I desire to DO… ”

“In 2014, I desire to HAVE…”

“In 2014, I desire to BE…”

“In 2014,  I desire to FEEL” — and before you talk or write, put your hand on your heart, close your eyes, take a breath and then just write or say what comes — no thinking it, FEEL it or SEE it… and let it emerge. The best is when you just let the energy rip out of you talking or writing and YOU surprise yourself.

A few important self-love and spiritual pieces of wisdom

1. Use the word DESIRE not words like “like to have” “want to do” – want comes from lack, like from a place of not deserving – that is so not self-love! So when you state these desires, it’s about coming from wholeness and enoughness. You already have access to all of this inside of you and through your connection to spirit. Desire means ‘From the stars’ so using this word invokes the truth that you are A. Aligning with Divine Will and B. Co Creating with the Divine. This isn’t about magical thinking or hopeful manifesting, but getting yourself into alignment with your heart and soul’s wisdom. When you do that, you create your year instead of pressure fill it.

2. January is the DREAMING TIME, February the Seeding Time – so play with these questions all month/moon long. This January holds a full cycle of the moon, which from a divine feminine perspective is really awesome and powerful. because when we create in conjunction with the moon cycle, we create realities that make harmony in our lives instead of stress.

LET’S GET THE DESIRE PUMP PRIMED — CHOOSE ONE OF THE 4 SELF LOVE QUESTIONS AND STATE HERE ON THE BLOG ONE DESIRE – “IN 2014, I DESIRE TO DO… HAVE… BE… FEEL… –

Here’s one of mine… it’s a DO DESIRE…  “In 2014, I desire to take a group of women to Italy for a Divine Feminine Immersion – a week of absolutely activating their Feminine Super Powers to Receive & Achieve instead of overgive and overdo… and then I desire to stay in Italy and the coasts of Greece to travel and have my own personal experience for the rest of the month!” 

Now your turn… post it here on the blog.

Christine Arylo,

Inspiration Catalyst, Transformational Speaker, Queen of Self-Love

Comments

Kassandra Brown's picture

I Desire to Create

In 2014 I desire to midwife parentcoaching.org into a powerful business that supports me abundantly and generates enough new clients for my friend and co-conspirator Meadoe to have as much coaching work as she would like.

I desire to deepen my trust of the Universe unfolding through me and relax into my inner knowing. I desire to give my life energy only to projects and people that inspire and feed my YES! I desire to give my energy freely and fully (Fool-ishly) to that Yes and clearly and cleanly say No when that is my truth.

I desire to share this work with my women's circle and continue the work with them.

Thanks, Christine!

With love,
Kassandra

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