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A Whole New Kind of Independence Day

Lissa Rankin's picture

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Today is the 4th of July, and many of us are going to picnics, watching fireworks, boating, hanging out with friends and family, and otherwise getting jiggy to celebrate our country’s birthday as an independent country.

But what about your personal independence day?

What if today could be more than just beer, barbeque, and boiling hot sunshine? What if today could be the day you celebrate becoming sovereign in your own life and being free from whatever is holding you back?

What Freedom Do You Desire?

Maybe you’re longing to be free from the Gremlins of fear that keep you from taking leaps of faith and skyrocketing to the stratosphere. Maybe you need to free yourself from letting the voice of your mother rule your life. Maybe you long to be free from illness. Perhaps you’re ready to be free from childhood traumas that haunt you still. Maybe you’re ready to be free from that soul-sucking job that’s out of line with your true life purpose. Maybe you’re ready to be free from that toxic relationship that is depleting your life force.

Whatever it is, you have the power within you to heal yourself, cut the cords that tie you to whatever is keeping you from shining your radiant light as bright as you possibly can, and free yourself so today can be YOUR Independence Day.

A Declaration of Independence

If you’re ready to make today your day of independence, try this little Independence Day exercise:

  1. Write down on separate slips of paper everything you’re declaring independence from.
  2. Take the slips of paper somewhere you can either burn, bury, or otherwise destroy them in a satisfying way (campfires are a great choice, but so is burying tiny shreds of paper deep in the sand on a beach).
  3. Before you destroy these slips of paper, turn each of them into a declaration and say it out loud. For example, “I declare that I am no longer going to be a victim of my husband’s temper” or “I declare that I am free of fear and ready to follow my dreams.”
  4. Now DESTROY whatever is keeping you from being free. Tie them to fireworks and shoot them up in the air. Burn them. Bury them. Drown them. Confetti them and throw them over your head. Glue them to rocks and throw them in the lake. (It’s just paper, so it will biodegrade.)
  5. Now it’s time to CELEBRATE your Independence Day! Dance. Light candles. Sing. Shoot off bottle rockets. Toast. Happy Independence Day, my love!
  6. For extra credit, do this with one or more people. It’s UBER powerful that way and you can all bear witness to each other’s independence.

Are you ready to celebrate your independence?

What would you like to declare independence from? Share with us here and we’ll all lift you up in your quest to be sovereign.

Happy July 4th. May all beings be free, independent, and radically ALIVE.

Lighting sparklers,

Lissa

Lissa Rankin, MD: Founder of OwningPink.commotivational speaker, and author of What’s Up Down There? Questions You’d Only Ask Your Gynecologist If She Was Your Best Friend and Encaustic Art: The Complete Guide To Creating Fine Art With Wax.

Learn more about Lissa Rankin here. 

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Comments

Kasey's picture

Thank you

I usually do this ritual on New Year's Eve, but I have a lot I am trying to shake loose, so tonight, after roasting marshmallows in the fire pit out back, I will declare my own Independence Day this way. Thank you for the inspiration!

And I know everyone is free to express themselves and that it isn't exactly on point, but, for what it's worth, I got a lot out of the ecourse and am happy to have paid what I did for it.

Lissa Rankin's picture

Thank you Kait!

And yes! A bit of Kripalu love indeed...
Hugs and love back atcha sweetie
Lissa

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Lissa Rankin's picture

Sorry you're irritated Mandy

You have the right to make any choices you wish to make about future e-courses, but I wanted to give a gift to my community today, and it's my right to do so.

So happy 4th!
May you all celebrate your personal Independence today!

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Kait's picture

Seeing a bit of Kripalu love in here...

and I'm loving it! Happy 4th beautiful!

Mandy's picture

Irritated

I just got your email about the huge discount you are willing to give for your ecourse on July 4th. I found myself feeling profoundly irritated when I learned you would be willing to accept a $25 payment for the course.

I recall feeling somewhatd pressured (bordering on manipulated...and not in such a good way) from you when you were constantly moving back and forth between the $249 and $149 price points. I remember feeling irritated and impatient when you went back and forth between those two price points.

Today, when I learned I could have just waited period, and just paid you $25, is not sitting well with me at all.

Your ecourse was thoughtfully done and all, but even at $149, your course was severely over priced. I am feeling upset with myself, and with you, for giving in to your earlier sell tactics. I don't know Lissa, this marketing strategy, is just really bugging me......though I am struggling to articulate exactly, why your change in price point is getting under my skin.

From here on out, I am going to find it very hard, if not impossible, to buy anything from you period.

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