
Sometimes I just check out of things. And I don’t only mean hotels.
Nope; I mean life. Occasionally I notice this right away – I’ll find myself coming back into a task or conversation like I’ve just been startled awake during a nap. Other times, this process takes longer – it could be hours, days, weeks, months or even (in the past) years.
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You’ve likely heard me speak on the importance of scheduling sex dates.
These are dates designated just for sex: not dinner, a movie or a walk on the beach.
Just sex.
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Where I am sitting right now a motorcycle just revved its engine and an inquisitive squirrel stopped its descent mid-trunk out of fear. The engine has vanished down a curvy road but the squirrel remains still, afraid to shift position. It watches me through the porch screen, wary of the sounds, the vibrations, the rhythm of a life force not quite natural, and when only the wind is left in the wake of the vehicle, the squirrel ripples its tail, as if testing the air for danger, and then dashes down the tree to a patch of lawn, careful to avoid the concrete road.
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I read Forbes Woman pretty regularly because I find many great writers there covering issues of interest to business women. I even aspire to write there myself, but I have a dirty little secret to share about this valuable online publication and many others who cater to professional women. The secret is that I started InPower Women in large part as a reaction against them, because I believe the time for marketing to professional women based on fashion is over.
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I was talking to a mentor of mine a few weeks ago and I asked him, “Do you think I’m on the right track?” He said to me, “Mike, the issue isn’t whether or not you’re on the ‘right’ track; it’s that you think there’s a ‘right’ track to begin with.”
Read More...I recently shared how I was able to get off coffee through my strong desire and willingness to change. I then invited you to share what you were ready to change in 2013. This video will help you take your willingness to the next level. Creating long-lasting change is easy — when you genuinely want it. So before you start making lofty resolutions that you know you won’t keep, why don’t you prepare to do it right this year? Read More...

Lately a number of people have expressed to me that they think it’s surprising and strange that their past circumstances contribute to their current reality. More than one person has told me that it literally feels like a “cliche” to them that their relationship with their parents, for example, bears weight on the way that they see the world.
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I haven’t had much to say. Maybe you’ve noticed. More likely you were busy fighting with family over the turkey neck , making popcorn garland interspersed with bright red cranberries and hiding your kid’s frightening Furby on the back shelf at the top of your closet. Perhaps you’ve been hanging out in said closet, below your fancy party dresses, eating your Valentine’s chocolates. Maybe you’re mapping out your spring garden.
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Calling all sirens, mermaids and water babies! Today’s new moon in enchanting, ethereal Pisces—the watery sign of the fish—brings a flood of compassionate and healing energy to planet earth. At this new moon, a rare pileup of SIX planets meet in Pisces: the Sun, the moon, communicator Mercury, romantic Venus, energizer Mars and soulful Neptune. The effect will either be incredibly therapeutic… or disorienting!
Pisces is ruled by Neptune, planet of the subconscious and illusions. Life is but a dream under its trippy yet magical spell. But hey, it can be fun when things go differently than planned—once we stop fighting the flow. Today’s super-charged Pisces new moon presents the perfect opportunity to question, well, just about every assumption we’ve ever made.
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