
"Transforming our world, through love, one life at a time."
That's the motto at my Unity church. In Sunday school with the teens last week, my co-teacher reminded the class of that statement. It was important in the moment because we'd found ourselves in a discussion about what's wrong with the world. An eighth grader in class had expressed her concern with the younger kids who were more engaged with electronics than they were with the people and places around them. She said she wished that kids would explore the outdoors, create, and use their imaginations more. We pondered the issues of our technologically driven society and how isolated we are all becoming.
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How do you feel when you see or hear about the success of others? While it may depend on who it is, what they’ve accomplished, and how you’re feeling about your own life at the time – if you’re anything like me, you may have some mixed emotions. I often find myself excited and inspired by the success of others, especially the people closest to me. However, at the same time, I sometimes notice it can bring up feelings of jealousy, insecurity, and inferiority as well – especially when someone accomplishes or experiences something I personally want and/or worry that I can’t or won’t.
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Friendship is one of the first types of exterior relationships we experience as a child and one of the most natural connections we have with other human beings. We discover so much about ourselves from our interactions with others, especially when formulating our own malleable personalities, expectations and framework for the kind of friendship(s) we desire for the rest of our lives.
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I was listening to the radio recently and heard an interview with Ryan Vogelsong, pitcher for the World Series champs S.F. Giants. He shared how he was complaining about some of their friends to his wife one morning saying, “ They don’t seem to be happy about their lives.” She replied to him with, “ Ryan, not everyone gets to live out childhood dreams like you did and still do.” He was humbled by what she said, and became more compassionate for others and more appreciative of the life he has. What I got most from his interview was that he never lost faith in his dream and always “believed” he would one day pitch in the series.
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To expose our wounds to people we care about – the icky stuff, the ego stuff, the personal growth edges we’re working on that we haven’t yet mastered – is super vulnerable. Letting others see our “big ugly tails” (hat tip to my dear friend Amy Ahlers, who has seen my big ugly tail and trusted me enough to let me see hers) tends to trigger all our core fears of rejection and abandonment, of withdrawal of love. But to bear witness to someone’s wound is a privilege and an opportunity to deepen the relationship beyond the idealistic views we might have of each other into the real truth of both our light and our shadows.
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Feeling stuck in the muck of heavy energy? Lost your flow and feeling dry in a seemingly everlasting ebb? Give an intuitive body scan a go.
Many people I know are feeling similar energies right now, and you may be too. So often we attempt to solve our problems with logic – or through a logical process. It is easy to forget that our bodies are storing energy and wisdom and can tell us everything we need to know.
I’m going to open my journal and heart with you a bit and share the experience of a recent body scan that I did, and then I will take you step by step through your own process.
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Hold up.
Pause right there.
Even if it doesn’t feel like it: this is a significant place to be.
Powerful even. Definitely worth noting.

When the student is ready,
the teacher appears.
- Taoist saying

When I’m explaining the idea of getting over the edge in orgasm, particularly with deeper, vaginal orgasms, or profound heart/genital-gasms, there is a sense of needing to break.
To break apart. To break through.
Most people resist breaking. They fear pain.
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It happens every year.
As January 1st rolled around, millions of people resolved to finally lose weight and get into shape. Now we’re almost half way through 2013 and those resolutions are long forgotten.
Most “resolutionists” fail to reach their goals for ONE simple reason...
Their mistake? They'll begin by picking a good diet plan, or enrolling at the gym...and think they will have enough willpower this time to stick with their plan.
Instead, what they should be starting with is this: their mindset.
But what does “mindset” mean exactly, and how do you develop it in such a way that makes what you want achieve practically inevitable?
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