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Own Your Body by Detoxing Your Beauty Routine

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

Dearest Pinkies, please welcome back the beloved Green Robeen, here with some more very simple-yet-impactful ways to get our Pink selves in authentic, energetic shape by jettisoning some of the chemicals we put in and on our bodies. Thanks Robeen for your wisdom, your inspiration, and the wonderful spirit that drives it all. Hit it, sister!

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So the alarm goes off and your day begins… You hop in the shower, slather on some great smelling shower gel, work shampoo and conditioner into your hair, wash your face, towel off, then moisturize your body and roll on some deodorant. Now for some face-time – maybe you splash on some toner, slap on some moisturizer, add sun block for safety, and last but not least you top it all off with your favorite two-minute makeup routine and you’re out the door.

But wait a minute.

During this daily process you’ve likely exposed yourself to hundreds of dangerous chemicals. Your skin is highly absorbent – as the largest organ in your body it takes everything in and gives it a lift into your bloodstream. Next stop is all your organs and cells. Those products you just put directly on your skin –they each have several dozen ingredients, many you can’t pronounce, and most of which you have no idea what they do. Sure, you know about the dangers of synthetic chemicals, but it’s all so confusing, so hard to keep track of everything, so hard to know all you need to know, and so time-consuming to scrutinize every single product. And what if the green option doesn’t really measure up? We all know what that’s like – no one needs another beauty crime in their daily life.

Help is on the way!

I’m here to provide you with some easy to follow advice, some very helpful resources, and some great ideas for greening your beauty routine. We are going to look at the baddies, the eco-fakes, my favorite resources, how to read labels, and how to make shopping stress-free.

The Ten Most NOT Wanted Ingredients:

Getting a little bit of knowledge will take you a long way. You gotta know who the enemy is and what you’re dealing with so you can navigate your way to better beauty purchases. Here is your list of the Ten Most Not Wanted:

  1. Sodium Lauryl/laureth Sulfate is found in shampoos, body washes and toothpaste, and is a known skin irritant. This chemical is particularly nasty because it is absorbed through the skin and retained in the heart, liver and brain for long periods of time. It can cause damage to the eyes, even when absorbed through the skin. Exposure can lead to coughing, headaches, nausea and vomiting. Absolutely keep it away from children.
  2. Parabens are used as preservatives in cosmetics, and are known to cause irritation in sensitive skin. They have also been found to cause heart tissue problems over an extended time period, and are suspected to influence breast cancer, as they mimic estrogen. Studies have found high levels of parabens in breast tumors.
  3. Phthalates are often listed as DBP and DEP in nail polishes, deodorants, shampoos, hair gels, hand lotions, and more. Phthalate exposure in early childhood has been associated with altered hormone concentrations (affecting reproductive development), as well as allergies and eczema. Phthalates are often used as carriers for fragrance ingredients, and because the FDA allows fragrances to be classified as a “trade secret”, phthalates are often not listed on the ingredient label, showing instead as simply “Fragrance”.
  4. Formaldehyde contaminates personal care products when preservatives release formaldehyde over time in the container. Common ingredients likely to contaminate products with formaldehyde include quaternium-15, DMDM hydantoin, imidazolidinyl urea and diazolidinyl urea. In a study conducted by the Campaign for Safe Cosmetics on 28 children’s skin care products, 23 (82%) contained formaldehyde at levels between 54-610ppm. Formaldehyde is a known carcinogen, can cause allergies and has been banned from cosmetics in both Sweden and Japan.
  5. Lead is often found in lipstick and is a proven neurotoxin that has been linked to brain damage and miscarriages, as well as learning, language and behavioral problems. One third of the lipstick brands on the market exceed the FDA limit for lead in candy: 0.1 parts per million. Over the course of a lifetime, we swallow a fair amount of lipstick – nine pounds according to the Environment Working Group. In August 2009, the FDA’s own study found lead in all 20 lipsticks it tested. Recent science indicates there is no safe level of lead exposure.
  6. Synthetic Colors, also known as FD&C colors, are mostly derived from coal tar. The FDA has banned many from food because they are carcinogenic and toxic, yet they still remain in cosmetics.
  7. Synthetic Sunscreens contain chemicals that accumulate in body fats and in mother’s breast milk. These chemicals mimic estrogen and can cause hormonal changes within the body such as increasing the size of the uterus. These chemicals are found in big brand sunscreens and should absolutely be avoided, especially if you are pregnant or breastfeeding. The chemicals to avoid are: 4-Methyl-Benzylidencamphor (4-MBC) , Oxybenzone, Benzophenone-3, Octyl-methoyl-cinnamates (OMC) , Octyl-Dimethyl-Para-Amino-Benzoic Acid (OD-PABA), and Homosalate(HMS) .
  8. Mineral Oil & Petroleum Jelly (Petrolatum): Mineral oil is a petroleum by-product that coats the skin like plastic, clogging the pores. It interferes with skin’s ability to eliminate toxins, promoting acne and other disorders, and it slows down skin function and cell development, resulting in premature aging. Mineral oil and Petrolatum are used in many products – baby oil, cold creams, Vaseline, Aquaphor to name a few – and they can easily be contaminated with cancer causing PAH’s (Polycyclic Aromatic Hydrocarbons). Manufacturers use petrolatum because it is unbelievably cheap.
  9. Synthetic Fragrance chemicals are responsible for causing most adverse reactions to personal care products. These irritants and allergens cause rashes, coughing, sneezing, and dizziness. Numerous skin care products that claim to be fragrance free contain masking fragrances to become neutral in scent, and so still contain fragrances
  10. 1,4-Dioxane is a suspected kidney toxin, neurotoxin, and respiratory toxin that I often present in bath products for kids as well as the leading “natural” and “organic” brands. 1,4-dioxane is a byproduct of a petrochemical process called ethyoxylation, which involves using ethylene oxide (a known breast carcinogen) to process other chemicals in order to make them less harsh. For example, sodium laurel sulfate – notoriously harsh on the skin – is often converted to the gentler chemical sodium laureth sulfate by processing it with ethylene oxide – and this can result in 1,4-dioxane contamination. More than 56 cosmetic ingredients are associated with the contaminant 1,4-dioxane.

If you want more, Teens Turning Green offers a great reference list called the Dirty Thirty. It’s a list of 30 chemical ingredients potentially linked to cancer. Many have been banned in Europe because of suspected toxicity. However, here is where things get really interesting – many big manufacturers reformulate without these chemicals for the European market, but continue to use these potentially dangerous chemicals here in the US because they can. The FDA has banned just nine chemicals from cosmetics compared to the European Union, which has banned more than 1,000.

Beware the Eco-Fakes

Say you go to the store and find a product that says Natural or Organic. Should be fine, right? Yep, if only it were that easy. Unlike the food industry, there are no legal standards for organic or natural personal care products sold in the United States. Behind the scenes are large corporate marketing budgets with slick packaging and realms of psychographic data that would make Freud cringe. If the toxins didn’t motivate you to do your homework, then this fact surely will: the largely unregulated cosmetics industry has publicly assessed only 11 percent of the 10,500 ingredients in personal care products.

Here is one of hundreds of possible examples that there is no truth in advertising for the big brands – Clairol Herbal Essences claimed until recently to offer an “organic experience.” However, there isn’t much about this product that is either herbal or organic; it contains more than a dozen synthetic petrochemicals and has a moderate toxicity rating in Skin Deep database (more on that later).

Interestingly, a lawsuit was filed against many personal care and beauty companies whose products have the word “organic” in their name, yet don’t have a single certified organic product in their formulation. These companies include: Hain Celestial Group’s Jasön Pure Natural and Organic and Avalon Organics, Kiss My Face Corp, Levlad LLC’s Nature’s Gate Organics, YSL Beauté Inc.’s Stella McCartney Care 100% Organic Active Ingredients and Physicians’ Formula Holdings’ Organic Wear. For a full list of organic “cheater” brands, go to http://www.organicconsumers.org/bodycare/index.cfm.

Stress-free Shopping

But wait, I hear you say, how do I find products that are truly organic/natural AND work? We may switch household cleaners with little risk of nothing more than having to clean that mess again. But if our makeup doesn’t perform, it’s tragedy. We want and expect organic products to work as well as their toxic counterparts. So how do you find them? I’ve got a strategy for you:

  1. Use the Skin Deep cosmetics database at www.cosmeticsdatabase.com to do your homework before you buy. This searchable database works by matching the ingredients in more than 25,000 personal care products with 50 toxicity and regulatory databases. Here you can research the products already in your home or find safer products before you hit the store.
  2. Make sure a product you buy is certified through the USDA’s National Organic Program. To be certified, a product cannot contain petro-chemicals and must contain tat least 95 percent organic ingredients.
  3. Find a legit green personal care website which carries a selection of brands. They evaluate every ingredient so you don’t have to. Just make sure their policies are legit! Many offer free samples, money-back guarantees and friendly, knowledgeable people to talk when you want to know what to buy and what will work for you. One I particularly like is Organic Beauty Now (organicbeautynow.com).
  4. Ask a friend, fellow mom, your mom’s group, or me. We’ll tell you what we know, what we’ve tried, and what works. You can probably find someone who has done  the legwork for you and is more than happy to share what they know.
  5. Baby steps – hey, I know you’re busy. tell yourself it’s OK to take it one step at a time! Pick a category like a new lipstick or new bubble bath, then do the research and find something that works. Once you’ve mastered it, move on to the next. Better yet, why not get a group of pals together and assign everyone a product area?

Your Mission, if You Choose to Accept it…

Go forth and be green and gorgeous. Go look at the labels on your Bubble Baths, Shampoos, Moisturizers, Facial Cleansers, Toothpastes, deodorants, and makeup! Show your body some love, and the environment too!

How are some of the ways you might start greening your routine today?

In support of your inner glow,
Robeen

A Pink God’s Pleap off the Corporate Cliff

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

Dearest Pinkies, please welcome Pink God Ryan Rigoli, founder of (and blogger at) rigolicoaching.com. Ryan works with solo entrepreneurs and organizational leaders to build heart-centered businesses that inspire change in the people and communities they wish to serve.  He specializes in helping them to create a unique, personal brand that aligns their core essence with their life’s work. Ry’s here today to talk about his own, major, life-transforming Pleap, and the wisdom he’s gleaned along the way. Bravo, Ryan, and thank you for inspiring us all.

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The Matrix

It was about three years ago and I was exhausted.   I had recently come back from a trip to Australia.  My intention was to spend time with a good friend and rejuvenate.  The spending time with a good friend part was great.  The rejuvenation part didn’t last long.

My vacation buzz quickly wore off and before long I was back at work. I felt the weight of the world on my shoulders. I had just been moved to a newly formed team at Yahoo!, where I worked, and what we were tasked to do was starting to feel like trying to move entire mountains with a pinky. I was getting burned out after years of trying to ‘move the needle’ and putting everything I had into high priority projects at the company.

I found myself dreaming about my next vacation.  Peru, Iceland, India…where to go next?  Only I wasn’t there.  I was here, smack dab in the middle of the matrix working harder than ever before, and simply pushing on through to the next vacation.  Wash, rinse, repeat.

The feeling in my gut was screaming:  “Are you nuts?”  But I wouldn’t listen. I was too scared to make a change, and even if I did, I wouldn’t know what to do next anyway.  It was just too fuzzy of a plan to make a move.

Claustrophobia

One night I woke up around 3am and felt the walls closing in on me.  I had to rush to my patio to catch my breath. Still feeling enclosed, I ran out of my building and onto the street.  I sat on the sidewalk and started to catch my breath.  I knew right then that this was the beginning of the end for me in this kind of life.

When you start feeling claustrophobic in a 1200-square-ft. loft with 30 foot ceilings, then you know something’s wrong.  My body was telling me it was time for a change or it would shut down.  I liked my body and I also enjoyed being on this planet, so I decided to listen for the first time in a very long time to see what it had to say.

After a few minutes some images came to me.  I envisioned what it would be like in five years at the age of 40 – working in the same company and with the same two-hour round-trip commute.  Only this time I imagined being an SVP of Marketing, the role I had always been striving for.  That claustrophobic feeling immediately started to come back.  And there it was.  The path I was headed down made me feel more and more compressed, less fully alive, and, frankly, physically ill.  And the funny part about all of it was this:  I’d created this world for myself.  Not because I had to, but because I thought I would be happy and fulfilled. I felt that if I just pushed a little bit more, I’d be totally secure and free of all financial worries.

Practically speaking, of course, staying on with my company was somewhat of a known quantity.  And, if not there, then another similar company.  Another couple of years and I would have had the chance to become a VP making even more money and in charge of an even larger team.  I imagined what that felt like and observed the sensations in my body at the very thought of it.  First, the nausea (spitting up what I knew would poison my soul), then the claustrophobia (feeling trapped on a path that wasn’t for me), and finally a feeling of sadness and helplessness (my anger at myself turned inwards that I wasn’t owning my freedom to choose).

Exploring the Unknown

Quitting and maybe even traveling abroad, on the other hand, was a complete unknown and scary, but again I observed my feelings and physical reactions — lightness (freedom to reinvent myself) and nervous yet energetic excitement (the prospects of new people, new passions and new adventures).

That was enough for me.  A week later I handed in my resignation and started planning an extended trip through Latin America, many of the experiences of which I captured in my travel blog.

And it was from that day onward that I started a three-year journey into the unknown. Travels through remote lands, ‘successes’ and ‘failures’ of new businesses and relationships, universal mysteries revealed, even more questions and mysteries surfaced, moments of complete confusion and fear, times of absolute clarity and peace.

Would I trade any of it?  Never.  The most challenging three years of my life were the ones during which I felt most fully alive.

The Free-Fall

Anyone who goes through a process of breaking free of their own version of the matrix may have a different set of circumstances but the emotional experience is often the same.  Right before it starts and the black hole of opportunity opens, there’s a sense that there’s something more.  There’s a feeling of longing for something that you just can’t put your finger on.  There’s a terrified feeling of the unknown and questions about how you’re going to manage without all of the answers laid out right in front of you.  There’s exhilaration at the thought of freedom — the freedom to be who you really are and to live that fully whatever that may be.

And then one day you take the leap off a cliff only to realize that you’re falling without an end point.  It just keeps going.  Ever changing.  Ever moving.  The exhilaration, the fear, the joy, the anger, the sadness, all rolled up into one big leap of faith into the giant unknown.

And it’s that jump for me that led to an extraordinary journey that continues to this day.  Yes, when I returned, I took adventurous leaps in my travels, new businesses and relationships, but the real jump was inward.  And with that came a process of remembering who I really am.  ‘Self-remembering’ was not just a set of words anymore but a deep feeling of who I am as a Spirit in this body.  Of what I’m here to do and be.  Of how I’m here for others.   And a new and completely unexpected version of that continues to unfold.

A Grand Mystery

This kind of path is a different one than before.  Although there’s a time for planning and goal-setting, there’s a different quality to the experience.  A recognition perhaps that no matter how many goals we set, or plans we make, there’s still a grand mystery to it all.  Maybe we’re not meant to completely understand everything or know how every intention we set out will turn out.  Maybe it’s more about how we respond and awaken to the mysteries that unfold right in front of us rather than to the actual content or outcome that we originally expected.

Perhaps it’s really about the type of person we become along the way.  It’s about the capacities we cultivate in ourselves to speak our truth with strength and dignity but also with compassion and discernment vs. blame and judgment towards others with a different view.  Maybe it’s a holding of our intentions with a powerful, energetic, focused presence but also with a kind of gentleness, or lightness, for how the outcome will really appear to us in the end.   Perhaps it’s about a sense of openness about what wants to emerge from deep within…something much bigger than ourselves.  It is life expressing itself through us.  And it’s the very art of surrendering and then allowing that brings forth this new creation into the world.

Maybe it’s really a journey about how we treat others under the most trying of circumstances.  And, of course, how we treat ourselves even with all of the mistakes we make, the shame or guilt we feel, the broken promises we’ve made along the way.   Perhaps it’s, ultimately, about how much love and kindness we can show ourselves in the midst of it all.

The Sacred Journey

There’s a painting in my house that says:  “Sometimes your only available transportation is a leap of faith.”  As people on a spiritual path, we are all on a sacred journey that takes an extra-ordinary amount of faith and trust in ourselves.  We are on a personal journey of healing and through our presence we create a space for the healing of those all around us. For our clients, our friends, our families, our communities, our partners.

Whatever our path may be, creating social change through personal transformation is no easy calling.  It takes patience, diligence and immense kindness towards ourselves to explore the truth behind who we really are and work with others to do the same.  Our work does not come with a rule book or a set of predefined answers but simply with the presence of our hearts and the support of others to help us move forward.

ryanI want to thank you for doing what you do and for the very presence that you bring into the world.

I will do my best to support you in this journey.

Blessings,
Ryan

Taking the Next Step Toward Self-Discovery

Tuesday, March 9th, 2010

Dearest Pinkies, please welcome Mojo Mentor and Pink Goddess of Intuition Caroline Diana Bobart. Caroline will be hosting the upcoming Owning Pink Self-Discovery Workshop, a bi-weekly teleconference series running from April 8 – June 17. (Pinkies have already signed up, so go ahead! We invite you to register soon.)

Welcome Caroline as she talks about the upcoming Self-Discovery workshop, the Pink Group Agreement, and the vast potential within all of us.

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From the moment I first laid eyes on the Owning Pink website back in July, 2009, like many of us, I felt utterly moved to take a closer look at this creation that Lissa had birthed just a few months before.  As both a natural and a trained professional intuitive, the urge was too irresistible for me to not take a look at what this energy looked like on the unseen realms of awareness.  What, I wondered, was the glue that was holding this community together and why on God’s green earth did it glow so brightly?!  It had captured my imagination and was like nothing I’d quite seen before.  It was incredible to me that all this goodness and love I was feeling coming from a community that had an online home. And so, during one of my daily meditations, I sat down to take a look at the energy flow and spiritual dynamics around Owning Pink that was causing such a visible stir in so many people’s lives.

What I saw

What I found was profoundly beautiful and as I looked at it, I could see that part of Lissa’s inspiration for birthing this creation was that intuitively, she’d been picking up on the unspoken communication from people on the same or similar wavelengths about the magic, healing and transformation that can take place in a like-minded community based on unconditional acceptance and love.  As part of my inner explorations, The Pink Group Agreement was crystallized and subsequently adopted by the community to be shared with other Pinkies and consciously engaged.

One of the really unique things that I’ve noticed about Lissa’s style as a leader is that she has a huge heart and a spirit that comes alive and sparkles with celebration with each and every wave of passion, support and goodness that ripples through the community.  Indeed, many would call her fearless.  It has been such a huge process to witness the growth that both the community as a whole has taken since its conception as well as the Pinkies within it.  What has been even more crucial is that Lissa and her team have effortlessly been able to keep pace and dimension with the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of the community delivering tangible structures and supports upon which the community can continue to flourish and build.  Perhaps the most visible and grounded of these is about to take physical form in the shape of the Owning Pink Center: the co-creation of the Owning Pink team and all Pinkies over the past months – those of you who have been sharing, growing, healing, integrating, processing and participating in Owning Pink Workshops, Mojo-Live Calls, posting and sharing on the Posse forum, blogs, and on many many other levels and less overt ways.

How the Self-Discovery Workshop Factors In

As a part of this momentous step-up into a place of more interactive, accessible, conscious vitality and wellness for Pinkies on the virtual side of things, I am thrilled to be leading the first ever online Owning Pink Self-Discovery Workshop which starts on April 8.  This workshop series incorporates all the abilities and gifts that I bring to Owning Pink as a Mojo Mentor … my intuition, clairvoyant and healing abilities, experience in creating sacred space, spiritual counseling, teaching and group work.  Through the inherent multidimensionality of the 6th chakra or third eye, these sessions involve powerful guided visualizations created to meet each of us where we are on our spiritual path.

Within a shared group agreement we will light up and amplify the voice of our true Selves!

Self-Discovery is a process, and one of the most magical aspects of embarking upon a program like this with other Pinkies who are in agreement to their own healing and evolution – as well as that of others’ – is that there are no limits to the levels and layers on which you will be positively affected by this inner-work.

If you have been searching for a way to turn up the volume on your intuition, release your past and move forward into the future, a brighter, lighter, more on-purpose YOU in the company of other bright, capable souls, then perhaps you might consider that this Owning Pink Self-Discovery Series might have been created just for you.  At this critical time in Owning Pink’s evolution, I’m so looking forward to sharing this 12-week journey with you, and seeing what magic we can create!

With love and exuberance,
Caroline

Note from Owning Pink founder Dr. Lissa Rankin:

Pinkies, I will be present, helping hold the sacred space, during these workshop. Caroline will be guiding us, but I am on my own path of self-discovery and can’t wait to see what she has in store for us. Join us and take the next step towards realizing that you already have all that it takes to have all that you want. Big hugs and love- Lissa

Claiming Our Divine Selves: Why We Don’t Need to Wait

Sunday, March 7th, 2010

Dear Pinkies, please welcome back Audrey Vitolins, a motivational speaker, consultant and intuitive coach for transformation, who helps her clients uncover their truth – or what she calls their gold. She’s a Magical Eyes coach, Pinkies! And she’s here today to talk a bit about why we wait to follow our dreams … and why we don’t need to any more.

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“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
– Anais Nin

Can you feel the excitement?! The buzz of energies, a sense that what you have been waiting for is indeed possible?! Or perhaps you are feeling an uncertainty as you face a blank canvas knowing that it is indeed your time to fill it. Are you feeling that you almost cannot deny the call to respond? As written above, that it’s almost becoming too painful to wait any longer? Or maybe you are feeling dead in the water knowing that the old way no longer fits.

I’ve walked this path and know what it’s like to make the conscious decision to unfold and how challenging it can be. I’ve streamlined what I’ve learned so that others have an easier time, and this is why I now guide beautiful, amazing, passionate souls through this process.

Divine Timing

It is key that during these times you understand the difference between the patience involved in allowing something to manifest, aka “divine timing”, versus waiting to step into what you sense is possible or into the embodiment of your Divine Loving Self.

Waiting to be who you are here to be is not the same as being patient. One is victim consciousness and a lack of action, the other is acknowledging that all is in divine order. Hear this again – hoping that your feeling doubtful or fearful of living authentically will one day dissolve is not patience. It’s just waiting.

You experience how it can be challenging to pick up senses about things to come such as the endings of relationships, beginnings, possibilities, moves, creative ideas, etc. You have this sense but are not sure as to the timing. So you wait and delay stepping into the power of the now opportunity.

Ways we wait

We do this on several levels. On an external level, we wait to move forward on practical matters because we know that change is coming. Perhaps you ignore a job opportunity or new relationship because you sense an upcoming change and don’t understand how these new opportunities will fit into the change you sense.

This also occurs at an internal level. You wait to be less afraid, to be more loving, to speak up, to treat your body with respect until you arrive at your new destination whether this new destination is energetic (e.g. you release blame or guilt) or physical (e.g. you move to Georgia). Or you continue to act defensive and closed down with people around you who cause you stress because you know that one day you will get a new job, new spouse, move away from your family or those neighbors or that group of friends and all will be well in this new land.

In other words, you are waiting for something outside of yourself to make it easier for you to be you. When really, you sense that right now you would rather laugh more, act softer, more nurturing, take a risk, let go of old regrets. And instead of just being or doing those things, you wait until others change, until you feel validated and safe. All the while not owning that the place of safety and validation is completely within yourself.

What happens is that you wait for your future to begin. You wait to arrive in Oz and then you will have courage and then you will know how to live from your heart space and then you will be at home and then you will be able to think clearly and paint like the wild artist you always knew you were. And what happens is that it takes much longer to arrive in OZ than you ever thought. And you begin to realize that you are exhausted, irritable, uninspired and you believe this is due to not being in OZ. Rather . . . it’s because you have decided to wait to be who you are divinely coded to be.

What are you waiting for?

Who or what are you waiting to be? Why are you waiting and what are you waiting for? Stop waiting and click those red heels. You do not need to “get” a new life to experience a healthy body, to be calmer, to be more loving, to step into your passion, to master your energy. You do these things, embody these things and thus create a new life.

If you want to get along better with that co-worker, don’t wait for him/her to change. BE who you want to be with them. If they reject you, you will not die! And if you are afraid you will shrivel up, then that is your indicator that you are waiting for something outside of you to change. Claim the freedom and expansion you will experience as you live from your truth and your integrity in that moment. Do this over and over and perhaps that person will change and perhaps not. But YOU WILL.

This planet needs as many of us to be in our power, to claim our Divine Heart Based Self. Please be the inspiration in someone’s life today and use your magical eyes to see other beautiful souls who are wanting to blossom!

Seeing you in your Joy ~

Audrey

See Yourself As Creator: The Divine Lies Within Us All

Saturday, March 6th, 2010

Dear Pinkies, please welcome Pink Goddess Elisabeth Manning, Founder of Conscious Conception Fertility Coaching. Elizabeth helps those who want to be parents find “peace, certainty and partnership with your baby in the creation process.” How beautiful – and how Pink?? This woman exudes peace and positive energy. Needless to say she has had quite an impact on me, and on Owning Pink. The below post by Elisabeth was actually a comment on my post the other day about creating versus procreating. We couldn’t keep the words of this wise and wonderful Pinkie to ourselves any longer. And so, without further ado, please give a warm welcome from your Pink hearts to this incredible Pinkie … one from whom we’ll surely be hearing more!

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I cannot begin to tell you the swell of love and appreciation I feel for each open heart in this forum sharing their experience, strength and hope with her Pink family. I am overwhelmed by the love I had no idea was waiting for ME, here, my new Pink “home.” This will be what I get to OWN, and powerfully, so thank YOU. I cannot wait to see what we can create together…

I find my own heart already knowing you, yet longing to connect to each and every one of you individually to hold your heart and tell you, “it is all so perfect; our stories, our journeys, our outcomes, and there is and never was anything ‘wrong.’” Never. All is perfect where we are, we are enough now, in this moment, and exactly where we are supposed to be…

The way I see it? When we get down to it, we came to this “earth school” to:

  1. Live the illusion of separation so we can find our way back to the truth that there is no separation (like drops of water we are, then to drop yourself into the ocean, what are you then? Individual unique expressions of the One, so celebrating and loving the unique chemical combination of YOU as creator, as aspect of creator, is of utmost importance!)
  2. Learn to create and see our creations manifest into physical form. This is what many of us are powerfully discovering n the Law of Attraction, etc but in my book it is imperative we learn how to connect with Source to do this with integrity/ethic and for the highest good)
  3. Along the way we make agreements with other aspects of the One (family, friends, co-workers, strangers whose lives we touch and who touch us) so they can help us take steps. The challenge? So many agreements can appear ugly yet they are our greatest teacher because they help us wake up). Much of our healing is to overcome this, and discern our “stuff” from others’.
  4. We also have agreements with Creator and ourselves that, if we are not clear on, can forget and “listen” to the outside noise, programs, etc thinking it is our own. This is where we get to do the inner work: Who am I? What do I love, how do I find my way back to myself? This is my favorite part when I coach others.
  5. To have experiences. Which helps us remember: it is never about right/wrong, good/bad (third chakra) it is only about “which experience do I want to have?”

Seeing ourselves as Creator

When we are clear that we want to experience ourselves AS CREATOR this definitely is a step in the right direction. Problem I see is, we are limiting ourselves wayyyy too much. Creator at its very essence is LIMITLESS, therefore the first step is to get out of our own way and touch in with that. Meditations to run the limiting pictures and give you an experience of what it feels like to be limitless can begin powerfully here.

I believe we get into trouble when we are missing out on seeing the beauty and respect for ourselves as powerful creators. That can be easily taken for granted. Then when something shows up that we “didn’t want,” we fall victim to the illusion that we are victims “I didn’t ask for that” (but ahhh, if we take on the idea that we attract everything that happens to us– then at some level you did– so let us find that thread to get your power back!), when in reality we are just unconsciously creating. NO need for guilt, blame, that is a waste of precious energy. Just OWN it…

So yes, much unwinding to do if we are to get “right” with our creations. It is all about releasing that which is NOT us, that limits us. These can be very very deep, but I see it loosen and fall away all the time at the energetic level (much more accelerated and we do not have to re-enact our drama to overcome it-otherwise I never would have gotten this far!)

Misunderstood/misaligned creation energy often shows up energetically in a distorted second and fifth chakras. More on this in a later post, as I really can’t stop myself from this subject! It is my life’s work to understand creation and manifestation and there is SO much richness to be explored and discovered, ladies.

My Own Story

The fact that I choose not to have children at 40 is also a part of my story. I made a very conscious choice to give birth to ideas, and to be a midwife for others creations and births in this world. Once I found the core of myself as Creator, and my “Primary Postulate” (life purpose) to “Be in service to the Highest Good: To bring light to the world and positively affect others that we all may be elevated into the greater human potential,” I can DO ANYTHING with this. It was then I got scared, because I actually saw how big that was. =) That is a healthy fear and I have since seen how my creations were leading me to more and yet more creations. Now I am creating a television show – who knew??? But am I scared now? Not a bit. I am a vibrational match to my creations now. It is as though the idea “of course, why NOT?” is now a fun playmate of mine!

To ALL our amazing, beautiful creations in this amazing and beautiful world … I have sooo much gratitude for all of you.

Seeing the Creator in you,
Elisabeth