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Own Your Body by Detoxing Your Beauty Routine

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

Dearest Pinkies, please welcome back the beloved Green Robeen, here with some more very simple-yet-impactful ways to get our Pink selves in authentic, energetic shape by jettisoning some of the chemicals we put in and on our bodies. Thanks Robeen for your wisdom, your inspiration, and the wonderful spirit that drives it all. Hit it, sister!

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So the alarm goes off and your day begins… You hop in the shower, slather on some great smelling shower gel, work shampoo and conditioner into your hair, wash your face, towel off, then moisturize your body and roll on some deodorant. Now for some face-time – maybe you splash on some toner, slap on some moisturizer, add sun block for safety, and last but not least you top it all off with your favorite two-minute makeup routine and you’re out the door.

But wait a minute.

During this daily process you’ve likely exposed yourself to hundreds of dangerous chemicals. Your skin is highly absorbent – as the largest organ in your body it takes everything in and gives it a lift into your bloodstream. Next stop is all your organs and cells. Those products you just put directly on your skin –they each have several dozen ingredients, many you can’t pronounce, and most of which you have no idea what they do. Sure, you know about the dangers of synthetic chemicals, but it’s all so confusing, so hard to keep track of everything, so hard to know all you need to know, and so time-consuming to scrutinize every single product. And what if the green option doesn’t really measure up? We all know what that’s like – no one needs another beauty crime in their daily life.

Help is on the way!

I’m here to provide you with some easy to follow advice, some very helpful resources, and some great ideas for greening your beauty routine. We are going to look at the baddies, the eco-fakes, my favorite resources, how to read labels, and how to make shopping stress-free.

The Ten Most NOT Wanted Ingredients:

Getting a little bit of knowledge will take you a long way. You gotta know who the enemy is and what you’re dealing with so you can navigate your way to better beauty purchases. Here is your list of the Ten Most Not Wanted:

  1. Sodium Lauryl/laureth Sulfate is found in shampoos, body washes and toothpaste, and is a known skin irritant. This chemical is particularly nasty because it is absorbed through the skin and retained in the heart, liver and brain for long periods of time. It can cause damage to the eyes, even when absorbed through the skin. Exposure can lead to coughing, headaches, nausea and vomiting. Absolutely keep it away from children.
  2. Parabens are used as preservatives in cosmetics, and are known to cause irritation in sensitive skin. They have also been found to cause heart tissue problems over an extended time period, and are suspected to influence breast cancer, as they mimic estrogen. Studies have found high levels of parabens in breast tumors.
  3. Phthalates are often listed as DBP and DEP in nail polishes, deodorants, shampoos, hair gels, hand lotions, and more. Phthalate exposure in early childhood has been associated with altered hormone concentrations (affecting reproductive development), as well as allergies and eczema. Phthalates are often used as carriers for fragrance ingredients, and because the FDA allows fragrances to be classified as a “trade secret”, phthalates are often not listed on the ingredient label, showing instead as simply “Fragrance”.
  4. Formaldehyde contaminates personal care products when preservatives release formaldehyde over time in the container. Common ingredients likely to contaminate products with formaldehyde include quaternium-15, DMDM hydantoin, imidazolidinyl urea and diazolidinyl urea. In a study conducted by the Campaign for Safe Cosmetics on 28 children’s skin care products, 23 (82%) contained formaldehyde at levels between 54-610ppm. Formaldehyde is a known carcinogen, can cause allergies and has been banned from cosmetics in both Sweden and Japan.
  5. Lead is often found in lipstick and is a proven neurotoxin that has been linked to brain damage and miscarriages, as well as learning, language and behavioral problems. One third of the lipstick brands on the market exceed the FDA limit for lead in candy: 0.1 parts per million. Over the course of a lifetime, we swallow a fair amount of lipstick – nine pounds according to the Environment Working Group. In August 2009, the FDA’s own study found lead in all 20 lipsticks it tested. Recent science indicates there is no safe level of lead exposure.
  6. Synthetic Colors, also known as FD&C colors, are mostly derived from coal tar. The FDA has banned many from food because they are carcinogenic and toxic, yet they still remain in cosmetics.
  7. Synthetic Sunscreens contain chemicals that accumulate in body fats and in mother’s breast milk. These chemicals mimic estrogen and can cause hormonal changes within the body such as increasing the size of the uterus. These chemicals are found in big brand sunscreens and should absolutely be avoided, especially if you are pregnant or breastfeeding. The chemicals to avoid are: 4-Methyl-Benzylidencamphor (4-MBC) , Oxybenzone, Benzophenone-3, Octyl-methoyl-cinnamates (OMC) , Octyl-Dimethyl-Para-Amino-Benzoic Acid (OD-PABA), and Homosalate(HMS) .
  8. Mineral Oil & Petroleum Jelly (Petrolatum): Mineral oil is a petroleum by-product that coats the skin like plastic, clogging the pores. It interferes with skin’s ability to eliminate toxins, promoting acne and other disorders, and it slows down skin function and cell development, resulting in premature aging. Mineral oil and Petrolatum are used in many products – baby oil, cold creams, Vaseline, Aquaphor to name a few – and they can easily be contaminated with cancer causing PAH’s (Polycyclic Aromatic Hydrocarbons). Manufacturers use petrolatum because it is unbelievably cheap.
  9. Synthetic Fragrance chemicals are responsible for causing most adverse reactions to personal care products. These irritants and allergens cause rashes, coughing, sneezing, and dizziness. Numerous skin care products that claim to be fragrance free contain masking fragrances to become neutral in scent, and so still contain fragrances
  10. 1,4-Dioxane is a suspected kidney toxin, neurotoxin, and respiratory toxin that I often present in bath products for kids as well as the leading “natural” and “organic” brands. 1,4-dioxane is a byproduct of a petrochemical process called ethyoxylation, which involves using ethylene oxide (a known breast carcinogen) to process other chemicals in order to make them less harsh. For example, sodium laurel sulfate – notoriously harsh on the skin – is often converted to the gentler chemical sodium laureth sulfate by processing it with ethylene oxide – and this can result in 1,4-dioxane contamination. More than 56 cosmetic ingredients are associated with the contaminant 1,4-dioxane.

If you want more, Teens Turning Green offers a great reference list called the Dirty Thirty. It’s a list of 30 chemical ingredients potentially linked to cancer. Many have been banned in Europe because of suspected toxicity. However, here is where things get really interesting – many big manufacturers reformulate without these chemicals for the European market, but continue to use these potentially dangerous chemicals here in the US because they can. The FDA has banned just nine chemicals from cosmetics compared to the European Union, which has banned more than 1,000.

Beware the Eco-Fakes

Say you go to the store and find a product that says Natural or Organic. Should be fine, right? Yep, if only it were that easy. Unlike the food industry, there are no legal standards for organic or natural personal care products sold in the United States. Behind the scenes are large corporate marketing budgets with slick packaging and realms of psychographic data that would make Freud cringe. If the toxins didn’t motivate you to do your homework, then this fact surely will: the largely unregulated cosmetics industry has publicly assessed only 11 percent of the 10,500 ingredients in personal care products.

Here is one of hundreds of possible examples that there is no truth in advertising for the big brands – Clairol Herbal Essences claimed until recently to offer an “organic experience.” However, there isn’t much about this product that is either herbal or organic; it contains more than a dozen synthetic petrochemicals and has a moderate toxicity rating in Skin Deep database (more on that later).

Interestingly, a lawsuit was filed against many personal care and beauty companies whose products have the word “organic” in their name, yet don’t have a single certified organic product in their formulation. These companies include: Hain Celestial Group’s Jasön Pure Natural and Organic and Avalon Organics, Kiss My Face Corp, Levlad LLC’s Nature’s Gate Organics, YSL Beauté Inc.’s Stella McCartney Care 100% Organic Active Ingredients and Physicians’ Formula Holdings’ Organic Wear. For a full list of organic “cheater” brands, go to http://www.organicconsumers.org/bodycare/index.cfm.

Stress-free Shopping

But wait, I hear you say, how do I find products that are truly organic/natural AND work? We may switch household cleaners with little risk of nothing more than having to clean that mess again. But if our makeup doesn’t perform, it’s tragedy. We want and expect organic products to work as well as their toxic counterparts. So how do you find them? I’ve got a strategy for you:

  1. Use the Skin Deep cosmetics database at www.cosmeticsdatabase.com to do your homework before you buy. This searchable database works by matching the ingredients in more than 25,000 personal care products with 50 toxicity and regulatory databases. Here you can research the products already in your home or find safer products before you hit the store.
  2. Make sure a product you buy is certified through the USDA’s National Organic Program. To be certified, a product cannot contain petro-chemicals and must contain tat least 95 percent organic ingredients.
  3. Find a legit green personal care website which carries a selection of brands. They evaluate every ingredient so you don’t have to. Just make sure their policies are legit! Many offer free samples, money-back guarantees and friendly, knowledgeable people to talk when you want to know what to buy and what will work for you. One I particularly like is Organic Beauty Now (organicbeautynow.com).
  4. Ask a friend, fellow mom, your mom’s group, or me. We’ll tell you what we know, what we’ve tried, and what works. You can probably find someone who has done  the legwork for you and is more than happy to share what they know.
  5. Baby steps – hey, I know you’re busy. tell yourself it’s OK to take it one step at a time! Pick a category like a new lipstick or new bubble bath, then do the research and find something that works. Once you’ve mastered it, move on to the next. Better yet, why not get a group of pals together and assign everyone a product area?

Your Mission, if You Choose to Accept it…

Go forth and be green and gorgeous. Go look at the labels on your Bubble Baths, Shampoos, Moisturizers, Facial Cleansers, Toothpastes, deodorants, and makeup! Show your body some love, and the environment too!

How are some of the ways you might start greening your routine today?

In support of your inner glow,
Robeen

Everything is a Risk: Which Leap of Faith Will You Take?

Thursday, March 4th, 2010

Beloved Pinkies, please welcome back Tama Kieves, author of This Time I Dance: Creating the Work You Love and a Pink Goddess through and through.  She speaks today about risk … or to put it in Pink terms, taking a Pleap (Pink leap of faith). Enjoy, and many thanks as always to Tama!

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There is no safe life. Where did we get the idea that life was supposed to be safe? What of joy and consequence has ever been safe? Giving birth to a child? Taking a road trip? Kissing that handsome, winsome stranger? Give yourself over to risk. Risk is the only friend you have. Risk is the one who will make your blood flow red. You don’t want a safe life. You want a life that is so full of juice, joy and meaning, that nothing threatens you– because you’ve already won the prize.

You Can’t Avoid It

Besides, there is no risk free life. You only get to decide which risk is worth it to you, because everything is a risk. Staying tight like a bud is a risk. Staying inside in your bed is a risk. Taking the subway is a risk. Staying in a marriage or job that crushes your soul, though cruises along– as always– is a risk. There is no opting out in this life. You only get to choose which risk you’ll take.  Here’s what I’d suggest. Bet on the sure thing. Bet on love. Spend your life on faith. Take the road that makes you stronger. Going after things you want, whether or not you get them, makes you stronger. Yeah, baby, take that in.

Darkness Looms & Danger Lurks

There will always be a choice between immediate safety and ultimate safety. Let me give you an example of what I mean. Years ago, I went hiking with a boyfriend, somewhere in Oregon. We had ourselves a slap-happy time by the ocean at the end of the trail. Too much of a time. The sun began evaporating from the sky. It was a time of year that still turned very cold.

We were dressed lightly with no provisions, as we hadn’t intended to hike this far. Knowing we needed to get back to the car, we walked back quickly on the dimming trail. But half way out of the forest, we heard an unusual knocking noise. A tribe of birds squawked and fluttered away. They left a hollowness in their wake. Something didn’t feel right.

The creepy noise continued. “Maybe it’s a moose,” said Nick eagerly, looking around. I walked up ahead and peered into the trees. I saw darkness behind them. Then that darkness took shape, the shape of a bear. Now, for the record, I am not the type of woman that looks at a bear in fascination, even at a zoo. I grew up in Brooklyn, New York, for God’s sake. On my best day, I am still probably more comfortable pressed up against a thousand sweaty strangers in a disco than witnessing wildlife in a forest. And at this moment, honest to God, I’d really rather have been clubbed and mugged.  I instinctively walked backwards on the trail, and then ran further back until I could breathe. Nick followed me. “It’s a bear,” I said to him, terror and adrenaline lighting up my senses.

Then the negotiations began. We had to walk back past the bear to get out of the woods. We had to walk by the bear. If we walked the other way, nightfall would set in, bringing its wet ocean breath of cold and death by hypothermia. We were already beginning to shiver. I imagined being mauled. Hypothermia sounded nice, just going numb forever. I really wanted to avoid that bear. It was a dark black beast that I could not predict or control and it could confront me whether I was ready or not. But then if we avoided that possibility, we were facing the guarantee of a slow, insidious death.

Life Is Worth Saving, But It May Require Some Discomfort

Believe me the symbolic choice here was not lost on me. I had only recently left my prestigious legal career to dare my crazy dreams of becoming a writer. I had left the “safe position” because I knew it was numbing and annihilating my heart minute by minute. The comfort of that paycheck and validation was seducing me into a stupor in which I abandoned my will and lapsed into a menacing indifference about my own life. It was the hypothermia of having my heart go cold. But in that scenario, I had decided to fight to save my own life. I chose the terror of choosing my desires. I faced the immediate risk of not knowing how things would work out. I felt naked in the world. But I also knew I at least had a chance of something working out. My job had been “safe” in worldly terms, but I knew I had not one shred of hope of living my true life while there. It wasn’t savage death. But it was certain death.

Walk Towards Your Deepest Fear

It hit me then that I would have to walk in the direction of my fear. I would have to walk towards the bear. If I walked by the bear, I might make it to total freedom. It held the only possibility of what I really wanted. I’d at least have a chance at life. But I’d have to walk by the bear. I’d have to risk unbearable (no pun intended) uncertainty.

I’ll cut to the chase. I lived. We walked by the bear, slowly, praying silently to ourselves and to the God you pull out of your back pocket when you hope there is a God and you hope he has instant messaging. We surrendered to the vulnerability of our Big Chance and the purity of our instincts. Then we ran like hell and, if memory serves, I kissed that rental car’s thin tin sides. That night we ate at a local diner and I told the waitress about the bear and how happy I was to be alive. She gave us French fries on the house. I have never tasted better French fries. I know they were ordinary and probably too salty. But I was alive and everything tasted beautiful to me.

Walk By The Bear- Just Do It

I suggest you walk by the bear. What is your bear in life? What leaves you bare? What action or direction calls to you right now? Where do you at least have the best chance of getting something that you desire? The need for certainty costs too much. There is no certainty. But there is the strength of moving in the right direction.

I want to leave you with two great quotes by two different men that embraced inspired, creative lives. I also want to leave you with my love and my faith in you. You will make your right choice in your right time. There will always be a bear. And there will always be that within you that can bear anything, on its way to magnificence.

“Every moment of one’s existence, one is growing into more or retreating into less. One is always living a little more or dying a little bit.” Norman Mailer

“Be brave enough to live life creatively. The creative is the place where no one else has ever been. You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. You can’t get there by bus, only by hard work and risk and by not quite knowing what you’re doing. What you’ll discover will be wonderful. What you’ll discover will be yourself.” Alan Alda

Love and blessings,
Tama

©Copyright 2010 Tama J. Kieves. All rights reserved.
www.AwakeningArtistry.com

Mojo Monday: Help Mama Earth by Creating A Green Cleaning Kit

Monday, March 1st, 2010

Dear Pinkies, please welcome Robin Frank, otherwise known as “GreenRobeen.” Robeen provides stress-free, easy-to-follow guides to a healthier, happier Mama Earth. She is a writer, seminar leader, mom, and CEO of a social media consulting firm. On this Mojo Monday, Robeen challenges us to create home cleaning products that are better for us, our families, and for the planet. Stay tuned for more by GreenRobeen – a go-to gal for Owning our Health and loving Mama Earth. Welcome, Robeen!

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Have you ever wanted to make a Green Cleaning Kit, but didn’t know where to start, or just didn’t have the time to pull all the information together?

In just over an hour, you can make your own Green Cleaning Kit and have enough product for months of cleaning. Plus, homemade cleaning formulas cost about one-tenth the price of their commercial counterparts – so it actually takes less green to be green.

Here’s what you’ll need

Baking soda, White distilled vinegar, washing soda (may need to buy this online), castile soap, hydrogen peroxide, tea tree oil (Trader Joe’s is cheap), clean spray bottles, glass jars, and labels.

As you make each of these products, clearly label them with the recipe. This way, when you run out, your ingredients and instructions are right there.

Product Recipes

CREAMY SOFT SCRUBBER

  • Pour 1/2 cup of baking soda into a bowl
  • Add enough liquid detergent to make a texture like frosting.
  • Add 1 teaspoon of vegetable glycerin to the mixture and store in a sealed glass jar to keep it moist.
  • Optional: You can also add ½ teaspoon lemon essential oil.

Note: This is perfect for cleaning the bathtub because it rinses easily and doesn’t leave grit.

WINDOW CLEANER

  • Place 1/4-1/2 teaspoon liquid detergent into a spray bottle. (The soap cuts the wax residue from the commercial brands you may have used in the past.)
  • Add ¼ cup white distilled vinegar
  • Add 2 cups water

ALL-PURPOSE SPRAY CLEANER

  • Add 1/4 teaspoon washing soda or baking soda to a spray bottle
  • Add a dab of liquid soap
  • Add 2 cups hot tap water
  • Combine the ingredients in a spray bottle

Note: You can also add ¼ cup white vinegar to this mixture, as well as 15 drops lavender and/or 15 drops tea tree essential oil.

MOLD AND MILDEW

  • 2 teaspoons tea tree oil in a spray bottle
  • 2 cups water
  • Shake to blend
  • Spray on problem areas and do not rinse. The smell of tea tree oil is very strong, but will fade in a few days.

Note: Can be used on a moldy ceiling from a leaking roof, a musty rug, moldy showers/baths, and a moldy shower curtain.

OVEN CLEANER

  • Sprinkle water generously over the bottom of the oven.
  • Cover the grime with enough baking soda so that the surface is totally white.
  • Sprinkle more water over the top.
  • Let the mixture set overnight, and wipe up the grease the next morning.
  • When you have cleaned up the worst of the mess, dab a bit of liquid detergent on a sponge, and wash the remaining residue from the oven.

Note: If this recipe doesn’t work, use more baking soda and/or water.

DISHWASHING DETERGENT

  • Add 1 Tablespoon of Super Washing Soda to the dishwasher dispenser
  • Add 1 Tablespoon of 20 Mule Team Borax to the dishwasher dispenser
  • To remove the water spots that frequently occur, pour distilled white vinegar into the dispenser for the clear rinse gel.

Note: The cost for this recipe is less than 4 cents per load.

STOVE CLEANER

  • For big messes, put baking soda in the burner trough. Drizzle with vinegar. When it foams up, get scrubbing.
  • For aluminum surfaces: Mix two parts cream of tartar with one part water. Dip a soft cloth into the mixture and use it to clean aluminum surfaces

TOILET CLEANER

  • Pour 1 cup of borax into toilet bowl and let sit for a few hours before scrubbing.
  • Drain cleaner
  • Pour one cup baking soda down the drain followed by three cups of boiling water. Or pour ½ cup of baking soda followed by ½ cup of vinegar and follow with boiling water. Remember volcano science experiments? Definitely some pressure there.

FLOOR CLEANER – LAMINATE

Combine 2 teaspoons of Castile soap with 3 gallons of water. Make sure to rinse well to remove any dulling residue.

FLOOR CLEANER – WOOD

  • Use ¼ of a cup of mild liquid dishwashing detergent added to a bucket of warm water (for damp mopping).
  • For scuff marks, use a sprinkle of baking soda on a damp sponge and rub.

FABRIC SOFTENER

Add ¼ cup of baking soda or vinegar to your wash cycle.

LAUNDRY BLEACH

For an average size load of whites, add 1 cup of 3% Hydrogen peroxide after you have filled the washer with hot water.

Note: Be sure to spot test because Hydrogen Peroxide may lighten fabrics.

A few (not so fun) facts:

  • Many household cleaners are potentially hazardous. In 2005 the American Association of Poison Controls Centers reported 218,000 calls involving cleaning products
  • After being rinsed down the drain, toxic ingredients from cleaning products are discharged into waterways where they harm wildlife
  • Cleaning products account for 28% of the plastic debris sent to landfills

So Pinkies, are you up for the challenge? Have you thought about doing this before? What has stopped you? Do you have your own ideas and recipes for easy, natural homecare products? Please share your ideas and experiences!

Cleaning green,
Robeen

Avatar, Arbor Day, and Honoring Mama Earth

Tuesday, February 16th, 2010

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I wrote this on Arbor Day and just wanted to share it with you Pinkies!

I saw Avatar last night (in 3D IMAX, no less. Wow!)  And today, I went to Green Gulch Zen Center with my family, where the dharma talk was about the interconnection between all living things. After all, today is Arbor Day. Tree huggers of the world unite! After the dharma talk, trees were planted at Green Gulch and those of us with dirt under our fingers felt a little more a part of the earth on which we live.

Our own magical world

Which got me thinking about Mama Earth- and Avatar’s fantasy paradise of Pandora. My favorite part of the movie was the flora, the fauna- the floaty jellyfish seed pods, the giant orange spiral mushrooms, the gossamer trees with filmy filaments like willows that connect you to the Divine. It’s a magical world out there in fantasyland. We gush about the movie, we whisper in Awe about the beauty of Pandora. And then we turn right around and trash our own magical planet.

Think of the majestic redwoods that live in my backyard. Or the ocean cliffs I can see from my window. What about the purple heather that blooms on the mountainside this time of year? And who in the world thought up leafy sea dragons? Talk about magical!

What I loved most about Avatar was the interconnection between all of life. I love how the people mingle their hair with filaments from nature- and in doing so, they link. I love how the roots of the trees are all interconnected to the Mother Tree- how hurting one makes them all ache. I love how the people honor the land, creating a natural symbiosis. And then the ugly Americans show up and ruin it for everybody. It had me in tears.

So I found it funny that today is Arbor Day, the day to honor trees. Several times per week, I hike among the redwoods in reverence. The trees ground me. The stabilize me. They root me, as if we are- indeed- irrevocably linked and my sanity depends upon them. If someone were to chop them down, I would be heartbroken.

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It’s not just the trees

This interconnectedness to life flows through us, you know? It’s not just about trees or plant/animal life. It happens to us too. When I hurt you, I hurt me. When you berate yourself, you diminish me- because I love you and how dare you berate someone I love? This thread that unites us can feel extremely delicate at times, so much so that we may feel isolated, alone, separate. And yet, it’s simply not true. The thread that binds us is surprisingly strong, like the neurons that entangle each other to make up a thought.

If you’re like me, Pinkies, you get overwhelmed when you think about how we might help save Mama Earth. How can little ol’ me fix this big old catastrophe?

10 Tips to Help Save The Planet & Connect Us All

  1. Eliminate Styrofoam.
  2. Carpool.
  3. Limit or eliminate the use of plastic.
  4. Support local farmers- buy local.
  5. Recycle.
  6. Green your home (more on that soon from Green Goddess Tricia Barrett).
  7. Plant a garden.
  8. Buy organic food.
  9. Walk or bike if you can.
  10. Use reusable products, such as reusable coffee filters, batteries. Avoid disposable items such as single use cameras, razors, paper towels, etc.

And as a bonus for today: PLANT A TREE.

Hugging a tree and feeling the love,
Lissa

Owning the Lows by Being Present With What Is

Friday, January 29th, 2010

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Dear Pinkies, Please welcome Jenn Boire, author of the blog MuseMother, whose words on the Posse Blog so often serve to calm, comfort and ground us Pinkies. She’s here today with some thoughts on how we might sit with the blues … especially at this time of year, when many of us are starting to yell a loving-but-impatient “Enough already!” to Mother Nature. Take it away, Jenn!

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Just back from a weekend workshop with Sweet Adelines’ coaches in Massachusetts, and it’s Monday morning. Blue Monday, laundry day, day to pick up groceries to feed giant appetites of teens, juice and more juice, healthy snacks … and venture out into icy streets under pouring rain.

I was so high Saturday night, hearing choruses and quartets sing, driving back 7 hours on Sunday, yakking with fellow chorus members about all the things we learned and changes we want to make. On an energy high, a big new-learning buzz.

As I stepped out of the grocery store and headed back to the car with my grocery bags this morning, I thought, usually a day like this gets me down. We haven’t seen much sun since Christmas, going on over three weeks, and that’s a definite bummer. S.A.D. time, low light time, extra Vitamin D time.

But today, there’s also a deep pewter colour to the sky and the frozen lake ice, with all the snow washed away, is revealing patterns of silver, grey, and mottled white. Just before the rain started pouring there were puffs of dark grey cloud swiftly moving overhead and trees waving as the wind picked up. Lots of action for a quite empty scene, lots of movement and shades of monochromatic color. It occurred to me that this day I was open for musing on the sky and lake, instead of napping and trying to ‘get past it’, moving in fast forward mode to get to evening.

On these moody low energy days, since I work at home, I do some yoga, stretch out on the floor, move my breath down into my body. Be still. Stay open. Observant. Observe the moss on the north side of the giant oak in my yard, right near the bathroom window. Watch two crows flap their wings from tree to ice-fishing hole on the lake, hunting for fish remnants probably. Listen to the patter of rain on the metal roof.

I can be here wth myself, be kind to my self (instead of beating myself up for how unenergetic I feel).

As I write this, I am struggling against those blues, waiting to swamp me with lethargy and grunginess. I may not feel perky and bright, but I can revel in the slow moody retreat space I need to work on anyway for a retreat I’m leading on Sunday. It’s just not the way I imagined my day would go….but here it is, an opportunity, to soothe myself by being with myself, right where I am.

Appropriately enough, the retreat is called Journey into Presence. I guess it begins now…..

What about you Pinkies? How do you find yourself coping with not only the winter blues, but those oh-so-common “come downs” that accompany returning to the everyday following a few days of magic?

Stretching, breathing, being …
Jenn

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