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Own Your Body by Detoxing Your Beauty Routine

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

Dearest Pinkies, please welcome back the beloved Green Robeen, here with some more very simple-yet-impactful ways to get our Pink selves in authentic, energetic shape by jettisoning some of the chemicals we put in and on our bodies. Thanks Robeen for your wisdom, your inspiration, and the wonderful spirit that drives it all. Hit it, sister!

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So the alarm goes off and your day begins… You hop in the shower, slather on some great smelling shower gel, work shampoo and conditioner into your hair, wash your face, towel off, then moisturize your body and roll on some deodorant. Now for some face-time – maybe you splash on some toner, slap on some moisturizer, add sun block for safety, and last but not least you top it all off with your favorite two-minute makeup routine and you’re out the door.

But wait a minute.

During this daily process you’ve likely exposed yourself to hundreds of dangerous chemicals. Your skin is highly absorbent – as the largest organ in your body it takes everything in and gives it a lift into your bloodstream. Next stop is all your organs and cells. Those products you just put directly on your skin –they each have several dozen ingredients, many you can’t pronounce, and most of which you have no idea what they do. Sure, you know about the dangers of synthetic chemicals, but it’s all so confusing, so hard to keep track of everything, so hard to know all you need to know, and so time-consuming to scrutinize every single product. And what if the green option doesn’t really measure up? We all know what that’s like – no one needs another beauty crime in their daily life.

Help is on the way!

I’m here to provide you with some easy to follow advice, some very helpful resources, and some great ideas for greening your beauty routine. We are going to look at the baddies, the eco-fakes, my favorite resources, how to read labels, and how to make shopping stress-free.

The Ten Most NOT Wanted Ingredients:

Getting a little bit of knowledge will take you a long way. You gotta know who the enemy is and what you’re dealing with so you can navigate your way to better beauty purchases. Here is your list of the Ten Most Not Wanted:

  1. Sodium Lauryl/laureth Sulfate is found in shampoos, body washes and toothpaste, and is a known skin irritant. This chemical is particularly nasty because it is absorbed through the skin and retained in the heart, liver and brain for long periods of time. It can cause damage to the eyes, even when absorbed through the skin. Exposure can lead to coughing, headaches, nausea and vomiting. Absolutely keep it away from children.
  2. Parabens are used as preservatives in cosmetics, and are known to cause irritation in sensitive skin. They have also been found to cause heart tissue problems over an extended time period, and are suspected to influence breast cancer, as they mimic estrogen. Studies have found high levels of parabens in breast tumors.
  3. Phthalates are often listed as DBP and DEP in nail polishes, deodorants, shampoos, hair gels, hand lotions, and more. Phthalate exposure in early childhood has been associated with altered hormone concentrations (affecting reproductive development), as well as allergies and eczema. Phthalates are often used as carriers for fragrance ingredients, and because the FDA allows fragrances to be classified as a “trade secret”, phthalates are often not listed on the ingredient label, showing instead as simply “Fragrance”.
  4. Formaldehyde contaminates personal care products when preservatives release formaldehyde over time in the container. Common ingredients likely to contaminate products with formaldehyde include quaternium-15, DMDM hydantoin, imidazolidinyl urea and diazolidinyl urea. In a study conducted by the Campaign for Safe Cosmetics on 28 children’s skin care products, 23 (82%) contained formaldehyde at levels between 54-610ppm. Formaldehyde is a known carcinogen, can cause allergies and has been banned from cosmetics in both Sweden and Japan.
  5. Lead is often found in lipstick and is a proven neurotoxin that has been linked to brain damage and miscarriages, as well as learning, language and behavioral problems. One third of the lipstick brands on the market exceed the FDA limit for lead in candy: 0.1 parts per million. Over the course of a lifetime, we swallow a fair amount of lipstick – nine pounds according to the Environment Working Group. In August 2009, the FDA’s own study found lead in all 20 lipsticks it tested. Recent science indicates there is no safe level of lead exposure.
  6. Synthetic Colors, also known as FD&C colors, are mostly derived from coal tar. The FDA has banned many from food because they are carcinogenic and toxic, yet they still remain in cosmetics.
  7. Synthetic Sunscreens contain chemicals that accumulate in body fats and in mother’s breast milk. These chemicals mimic estrogen and can cause hormonal changes within the body such as increasing the size of the uterus. These chemicals are found in big brand sunscreens and should absolutely be avoided, especially if you are pregnant or breastfeeding. The chemicals to avoid are: 4-Methyl-Benzylidencamphor (4-MBC) , Oxybenzone, Benzophenone-3, Octyl-methoyl-cinnamates (OMC) , Octyl-Dimethyl-Para-Amino-Benzoic Acid (OD-PABA), and Homosalate(HMS) .
  8. Mineral Oil & Petroleum Jelly (Petrolatum): Mineral oil is a petroleum by-product that coats the skin like plastic, clogging the pores. It interferes with skin’s ability to eliminate toxins, promoting acne and other disorders, and it slows down skin function and cell development, resulting in premature aging. Mineral oil and Petrolatum are used in many products – baby oil, cold creams, Vaseline, Aquaphor to name a few – and they can easily be contaminated with cancer causing PAH’s (Polycyclic Aromatic Hydrocarbons). Manufacturers use petrolatum because it is unbelievably cheap.
  9. Synthetic Fragrance chemicals are responsible for causing most adverse reactions to personal care products. These irritants and allergens cause rashes, coughing, sneezing, and dizziness. Numerous skin care products that claim to be fragrance free contain masking fragrances to become neutral in scent, and so still contain fragrances
  10. 1,4-Dioxane is a suspected kidney toxin, neurotoxin, and respiratory toxin that I often present in bath products for kids as well as the leading “natural” and “organic” brands. 1,4-dioxane is a byproduct of a petrochemical process called ethyoxylation, which involves using ethylene oxide (a known breast carcinogen) to process other chemicals in order to make them less harsh. For example, sodium laurel sulfate – notoriously harsh on the skin – is often converted to the gentler chemical sodium laureth sulfate by processing it with ethylene oxide – and this can result in 1,4-dioxane contamination. More than 56 cosmetic ingredients are associated with the contaminant 1,4-dioxane.

If you want more, Teens Turning Green offers a great reference list called the Dirty Thirty. It’s a list of 30 chemical ingredients potentially linked to cancer. Many have been banned in Europe because of suspected toxicity. However, here is where things get really interesting – many big manufacturers reformulate without these chemicals for the European market, but continue to use these potentially dangerous chemicals here in the US because they can. The FDA has banned just nine chemicals from cosmetics compared to the European Union, which has banned more than 1,000.

Beware the Eco-Fakes

Say you go to the store and find a product that says Natural or Organic. Should be fine, right? Yep, if only it were that easy. Unlike the food industry, there are no legal standards for organic or natural personal care products sold in the United States. Behind the scenes are large corporate marketing budgets with slick packaging and realms of psychographic data that would make Freud cringe. If the toxins didn’t motivate you to do your homework, then this fact surely will: the largely unregulated cosmetics industry has publicly assessed only 11 percent of the 10,500 ingredients in personal care products.

Here is one of hundreds of possible examples that there is no truth in advertising for the big brands – Clairol Herbal Essences claimed until recently to offer an “organic experience.” However, there isn’t much about this product that is either herbal or organic; it contains more than a dozen synthetic petrochemicals and has a moderate toxicity rating in Skin Deep database (more on that later).

Interestingly, a lawsuit was filed against many personal care and beauty companies whose products have the word “organic” in their name, yet don’t have a single certified organic product in their formulation. These companies include: Hain Celestial Group’s Jasön Pure Natural and Organic and Avalon Organics, Kiss My Face Corp, Levlad LLC’s Nature’s Gate Organics, YSL Beauté Inc.’s Stella McCartney Care 100% Organic Active Ingredients and Physicians’ Formula Holdings’ Organic Wear. For a full list of organic “cheater” brands, go to http://www.organicconsumers.org/bodycare/index.cfm.

Stress-free Shopping

But wait, I hear you say, how do I find products that are truly organic/natural AND work? We may switch household cleaners with little risk of nothing more than having to clean that mess again. But if our makeup doesn’t perform, it’s tragedy. We want and expect organic products to work as well as their toxic counterparts. So how do you find them? I’ve got a strategy for you:

  1. Use the Skin Deep cosmetics database at www.cosmeticsdatabase.com to do your homework before you buy. This searchable database works by matching the ingredients in more than 25,000 personal care products with 50 toxicity and regulatory databases. Here you can research the products already in your home or find safer products before you hit the store.
  2. Make sure a product you buy is certified through the USDA’s National Organic Program. To be certified, a product cannot contain petro-chemicals and must contain tat least 95 percent organic ingredients.
  3. Find a legit green personal care website which carries a selection of brands. They evaluate every ingredient so you don’t have to. Just make sure their policies are legit! Many offer free samples, money-back guarantees and friendly, knowledgeable people to talk when you want to know what to buy and what will work for you. One I particularly like is Organic Beauty Now (organicbeautynow.com).
  4. Ask a friend, fellow mom, your mom’s group, or me. We’ll tell you what we know, what we’ve tried, and what works. You can probably find someone who has done  the legwork for you and is more than happy to share what they know.
  5. Baby steps – hey, I know you’re busy. tell yourself it’s OK to take it one step at a time! Pick a category like a new lipstick or new bubble bath, then do the research and find something that works. Once you’ve mastered it, move on to the next. Better yet, why not get a group of pals together and assign everyone a product area?

Your Mission, if You Choose to Accept it…

Go forth and be green and gorgeous. Go look at the labels on your Bubble Baths, Shampoos, Moisturizers, Facial Cleansers, Toothpastes, deodorants, and makeup! Show your body some love, and the environment too!

How are some of the ways you might start greening your routine today?

In support of your inner glow,
Robeen

Mojo Monday: Help Mama Earth by Creating A Green Cleaning Kit

Monday, March 1st, 2010

Dear Pinkies, please welcome Robin Frank, otherwise known as “GreenRobeen.” Robeen provides stress-free, easy-to-follow guides to a healthier, happier Mama Earth. She is a writer, seminar leader, mom, and CEO of a social media consulting firm. On this Mojo Monday, Robeen challenges us to create home cleaning products that are better for us, our families, and for the planet. Stay tuned for more by GreenRobeen – a go-to gal for Owning our Health and loving Mama Earth. Welcome, Robeen!

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Have you ever wanted to make a Green Cleaning Kit, but didn’t know where to start, or just didn’t have the time to pull all the information together?

In just over an hour, you can make your own Green Cleaning Kit and have enough product for months of cleaning. Plus, homemade cleaning formulas cost about one-tenth the price of their commercial counterparts – so it actually takes less green to be green.

Here’s what you’ll need

Baking soda, White distilled vinegar, washing soda (may need to buy this online), castile soap, hydrogen peroxide, tea tree oil (Trader Joe’s is cheap), clean spray bottles, glass jars, and labels.

As you make each of these products, clearly label them with the recipe. This way, when you run out, your ingredients and instructions are right there.

Product Recipes

CREAMY SOFT SCRUBBER

  • Pour 1/2 cup of baking soda into a bowl
  • Add enough liquid detergent to make a texture like frosting.
  • Add 1 teaspoon of vegetable glycerin to the mixture and store in a sealed glass jar to keep it moist.
  • Optional: You can also add ½ teaspoon lemon essential oil.

Note: This is perfect for cleaning the bathtub because it rinses easily and doesn’t leave grit.

WINDOW CLEANER

  • Place 1/4-1/2 teaspoon liquid detergent into a spray bottle. (The soap cuts the wax residue from the commercial brands you may have used in the past.)
  • Add ¼ cup white distilled vinegar
  • Add 2 cups water

ALL-PURPOSE SPRAY CLEANER

  • Add 1/4 teaspoon washing soda or baking soda to a spray bottle
  • Add a dab of liquid soap
  • Add 2 cups hot tap water
  • Combine the ingredients in a spray bottle

Note: You can also add ¼ cup white vinegar to this mixture, as well as 15 drops lavender and/or 15 drops tea tree essential oil.

MOLD AND MILDEW

  • 2 teaspoons tea tree oil in a spray bottle
  • 2 cups water
  • Shake to blend
  • Spray on problem areas and do not rinse. The smell of tea tree oil is very strong, but will fade in a few days.

Note: Can be used on a moldy ceiling from a leaking roof, a musty rug, moldy showers/baths, and a moldy shower curtain.

OVEN CLEANER

  • Sprinkle water generously over the bottom of the oven.
  • Cover the grime with enough baking soda so that the surface is totally white.
  • Sprinkle more water over the top.
  • Let the mixture set overnight, and wipe up the grease the next morning.
  • When you have cleaned up the worst of the mess, dab a bit of liquid detergent on a sponge, and wash the remaining residue from the oven.

Note: If this recipe doesn’t work, use more baking soda and/or water.

DISHWASHING DETERGENT

  • Add 1 Tablespoon of Super Washing Soda to the dishwasher dispenser
  • Add 1 Tablespoon of 20 Mule Team Borax to the dishwasher dispenser
  • To remove the water spots that frequently occur, pour distilled white vinegar into the dispenser for the clear rinse gel.

Note: The cost for this recipe is less than 4 cents per load.

STOVE CLEANER

  • For big messes, put baking soda in the burner trough. Drizzle with vinegar. When it foams up, get scrubbing.
  • For aluminum surfaces: Mix two parts cream of tartar with one part water. Dip a soft cloth into the mixture and use it to clean aluminum surfaces

TOILET CLEANER

  • Pour 1 cup of borax into toilet bowl and let sit for a few hours before scrubbing.
  • Drain cleaner
  • Pour one cup baking soda down the drain followed by three cups of boiling water. Or pour ½ cup of baking soda followed by ½ cup of vinegar and follow with boiling water. Remember volcano science experiments? Definitely some pressure there.

FLOOR CLEANER – LAMINATE

Combine 2 teaspoons of Castile soap with 3 gallons of water. Make sure to rinse well to remove any dulling residue.

FLOOR CLEANER – WOOD

  • Use ¼ of a cup of mild liquid dishwashing detergent added to a bucket of warm water (for damp mopping).
  • For scuff marks, use a sprinkle of baking soda on a damp sponge and rub.

FABRIC SOFTENER

Add ¼ cup of baking soda or vinegar to your wash cycle.

LAUNDRY BLEACH

For an average size load of whites, add 1 cup of 3% Hydrogen peroxide after you have filled the washer with hot water.

Note: Be sure to spot test because Hydrogen Peroxide may lighten fabrics.

A few (not so fun) facts:

  • Many household cleaners are potentially hazardous. In 2005 the American Association of Poison Controls Centers reported 218,000 calls involving cleaning products
  • After being rinsed down the drain, toxic ingredients from cleaning products are discharged into waterways where they harm wildlife
  • Cleaning products account for 28% of the plastic debris sent to landfills

So Pinkies, are you up for the challenge? Have you thought about doing this before? What has stopped you? Do you have your own ideas and recipes for easy, natural homecare products? Please share your ideas and experiences!

Cleaning green,
Robeen

Owning YOU on Valentine’s Day- Redefining Love & Beauty

Thursday, February 11th, 2010

beautiful womanDear Pinkies, please welcome back photographer and blogger Lone Mørch, proprietor of Lolo’s Boudoir, a delicious, safe space that encourages women to be and express themselves. For Valentine’s day, Miss Lolo has some empowering, thought-provoking thoughts on love and beauty.

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Lovely People,

Who do you love? Who loves you? With Valentine approaching, we might be asking such questions. To some V-Day is sweet. To others it is a bittersweet reminder of “without-ness.” Although a mostly joyful single, I am also hopelessly romantic, and it’s with some trepidation I approach this day. Will someone special bring me flowers? What if “not-the-one” invites me out? Would I be better off spending the day semi-depressed with other single girlfriends?

For a moment, I want to hide at home, and wonder why this day, one day out of hundreds, has such power to determine how we feel about ourselves and where we are at in our “love” lives?

What’s in a heart?

My friend Marcy comes to mind. A lover of life, she once asked rhetorically: “What’s in a heart? Really?” I now ask the same. What’s in a heart? What’s in your heart? Love is! There’s maybe some sadness and longings, but above and beyond, there is simply love. Love that’s doesn’t require someone special to be felt or shared. Love that doesn’t care what day it is. Love that’s yours. Was it Monroe or May West who said: “the man might chance, but the love stays the same.”

So this Valentine, no matter what the day brings, I intend to relish this heart-knowing, eat chocolates, buy myself flowers, spread my joy in any way I feel called, and celebrate LOVE. Love that spills into the rest of the year. I hope you will do the same. Because, ultimately, we decide when we want to feel what!

And as with love, today I also feel compelled to ask:

Who the hell decides what beauty is?

Valentine’s Day may also trigger some insecurities in us, especially if we haven’t found the love of our lives yet. Maybe I’m not pretty enough? Maybe I need to lose weight. Nonsense! Just like the media-driven calendar likes to tell us when we are worthy of flowers and chocolate (or not) the media also likes tell us what is beautiful and what is not. But have you ever really, seriously, considered, who decides what is beautiful?

Is it you? Is it your friends? Is it magazines? Is it ads? Is it movies? Is it fashion? Is it models? Is it the makeup industry?

Most of us are very aware of the power of the “media,” yet we continue to succumb to standards propelled by it. Currently body image is a hot topic. Statistically, the number one New Year’s resolution is either dieting, fitness, health changes or something related. We are obsessed with our “image,” and yet, what image are we attempting to attain?

Normal Size

A few smart media people have brought “normal-size” women into their advertising and fashion shows. TV shows like to show “real women” naked. But either way, most of us still adhere to and try to emulate directives that swirl around us in our attempts to feel worthy, beautiful, part of the fabulous crowd. Most of us still beat our bodies into shape or have five items on our weekly to-do lists to look and feel “right”.

What’s this really about? Why do we hand away our power to invisible forces that are driven by money and perverted beauty sense?

The “backstage drama” of this I often see at my studio. Women feel at once unworthy and deeply offended. There is a sense of rebellion. They want to see themselves beautiful, even if they don’t fit the standards. They want to claim their female bodies and their sensuality. They want to connect with being a woman, sexuality and beauty on their own terms.

How do we as women take back our bodies, our beauty, and our spirit, and own what is ours, regardless of size, ethnicity and features? And, if we are really honest, the body doesn’t define the true heart of us anyway, so how do we really evoke change in this area of our lives?

Redefining love and beauty,
Miss Lolo

Owning Health: Love Your Body in 2010

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

love your bodyHiya Pinkies,
Here’s a post I wrote this week for CollegeCandy.com. It’s a message I wanted to share with you Pinkies as we head into a new year of renewed love and acceptance, not only for each other, but for our beautiful, vital, PINK selves. Enjoy, and here’s to your health!

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So, it’s 2010! What do you hope to achieve this year? What intentions did you set?  Many of us resolve to change our health- to lose weight, to quit smoking, to eat healthy, to cut back on booze, to join a gym. We get motivated. We make positive steps forward after the indulgences of the holidays. And then- bam. A few weeks later, it’s all over and we feel crappier than ever. Now, not only are we eating junk food, failing to exercise, and engaging in addictive behaviors, we also feel like losers because we can’t follow through on our resolutions.

This year, I invite you to OWN your health. What does that mean? That means loving yourself exactly how you are, flaws, warts, addictions, and all. Until you can love yourself, you’ll never effect lasting positive change in your life.  If you have bad habits, own them! Love your body just the way it is. Accept yourself, even if your health is not optimal. Learn to live in your skin and be present with what is. It’s the only path to sustainable change.

Once you learn to love yourself as you are, you may find that you naturally want to nurture yourself. When you’re coming from a place of loving acceptance, you may no longer feel like grabbing for that bag of potato chips. You’re more likely to feed a body you cherish fresh, organic fruits and vegetables. When you love yourself- curves, lumps and all- you may find that you naturally morph into your ideal body weight.  When you feel comfortable in your skin, you’ll relish moving your body- doing yoga, going for a hike in nature, jogging on the beach.

From this place of self-love and acceptance, radical change can happen. And you don’t need to resolve anything. You will want to do it. Your body will know what it needs to be healthy. But in case you’re searching for some inspiration, here are some thoughts.

5 Tips For Owning & Improving Your Health in 2010

  1. Buy a juicer and start making green juice. Do a detoxifying green-juice cleanse, or add green juice as a supplement to your diet. By nourishing your body, you allow it to heal whatever ails you. Even if you’re already very healthy, adding green juice to your body can change your life by improving energy, mood, immune function, and confidence.  You may even help your body fight cancer. Love your body enough to feed it well.
  2. Get moving. Walk 20 minutes each day. If that feels good, rev it up. Love yourself enough to get your body moving. The health benefits are endless.
  3. Be still. Most of us run around like chickens with our heads cut off, which leads to overwhelming levels of stress. Let your nervous system rest by spending some time in stillness. Try meditating, listening to guided imagery, sitting outside in nature, or taking a nap. Love your body enough to let it rest.
  4. Take a multi-vitamin and talk to your doctor about preventative supplements that might benefit you, such as fish oil and calcium. Love your body enough to optimize your preventative medicine.
  5. Listen to the wisdom of your body. Our bodies send us messages about what we can do to improve our health- and we tend to ignore what we don’t wish to hear. Love yourself enough to listen.

These are just some suggestions. But don’t let anyone else’s suggestions guide your path. Make a commitment to cherishing your beautiful, magnificent, sexy, healthy, radiant self. Then watch what happens. You may be surprised that 2010 is YOUR year- and all your dreams will come true.  I know you can do it. I see you- the completely lovable, gorgeous, sparkly PINK you- and I believe in you.

Wishing you health and peace in 2010,

Lissa

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My Gift To YOU This Christmas

Friday, December 25th, 2009

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Dearest Loved Ones,

I was going to post my Christmas letter today- you know, the one many of you sent out, the one that says how well Siena is doing in preschool, how I gave birth to Owning Pink and finished writing two books. You know the letters, the ones that show our families coifed to perfection, that relate the triumphs of the year and the details our loved ones may have missed since the last Christmas letter.  But as I read the Christmas letter I had written, I realized it didn’t really have any heart in it. It had details that my loved ones care about, but it didn’t really have ME in it. So I’m going to write this one instead- which is what I really want to say to all of you this Christmas.

Today, on Christmas Day, I realize there is nothing I need under the tree, no gift I’m anticipating when I unwrap the shiny paper, no longing waiting to be met. This Christmas, I have absolutely everything I need, want, and dream about. I have YOU. And really, YOU are the reason for the season.

Each one of you has touched my life in ways you can’t begin to know.  I forget to tell you sometimes how blessed I feel that our paths have crossed. Whether you’re an old high school friend, a colleague, a family member, or a Pinkie, I feel so lucky to have you in my life.

I could tell you all the things my family has accomplished this year. I could fill in the story between the lines of what you might have missed, but do you really need to know the details? What if, instead, I tell you what my heart feels and sees this Christmas?

I see your beautiful Pink spirit shining through the masks we wear.

I see the authentic you, even if you’ve been trying to hide it from me. I love you just the way you are- I don’t need you to hide from me what you think I don’t want to see.

I see you as a joyous, radiant, beautiful, divine spirit embodied but not limited by the body that you inhabit. You are not how you look, what you’ve accomplished, or what you do. Every cell within you is LOVE. Everything else is just icing.

I see the healer within you, the superpower you may not even know you possess, the part of you that touches every person you meet from the heart, especially me.

You have reminded me that we must live for today, that we can’t put off joy until tomorrow. This moment is the only one that actually exists, and in this moment, we are whole and there is peace.

Because of you, I am more ME. Because we have touched each other’s lives, we have a sacred contract, one that helps both of us grow. Even if we have had challenges together, we are fundamentally different people for having known each other. We are evolution in action.

Knowing you has changed me this year.  I spent much of my life walking around, sleeping. You have helped awaken me, and this is better than any gift that could fit under my Christmas tree.

You have made me feel SEEN, for the first time in my life.  Because you are in my life, I no longer feel invisible. I feel cracked wide open. I thought it would hurt to be that vulnerable, but what I have discovered this year is that I FEEL EVERYTHING more. And it’s worth it.

On this Christmas day, I send you a gift too enormous to fit under any tree.

I send you LOVE with my wide open heart. I need nothing in return, for it is the very joy of opening my heart and letting you in that has changed my life.

May 2010 be filled with blessings and peace and may you know- always- that you are exactly perfect, completely whole, and ENOUGH, just the way you are.

With a deep bow of gratitude,

Lissa


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