Owning Pink Bloggers

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. Joy is a choice.

authentic

Lissa Rankin's picture

How To Feel Connected In A Disconnected World

For years, I was walking around on auto-pilot, going to school, going to work, going to the gym, coming home, making dinner, watching movies, hanging with friends…

But something was missing.

Read More...
Guest Author's picture

Woman Uncut

I have been living on the edge of something for a while, something elusive and fearful, something powerful but terrifying. I was stuck in a dark, constricted, oppressive space which seemed without end. I had no words to express what I was on the edge of, or how it felt.

Read More...
Mike Robbins's picture

It's Okay For Things To Go Well

How do you feel when things go well for you? If you’re anything like me you may have some mixed feelings about it, as odd as that seems.  While I do love it when things go well and when I’m feeling good, I also notice that sometimes it poses certain challenges for me as well.

Read More...
Lissa Rankin's picture

Does It Take A Crisis To Transform?

crisis

Awhile back I did a webinar with Dr. Sara Gottfried about my next book Mind Over Medicine, Pink Medicine, and self-healing, and according to Sara, “It was epic!”

Read More...
Mike Robbins's picture

New Year, Be You

be yourself

With the New Year still in its first few weeks, the annual "new year, new you" phenomenon is all around us in the worlds of advertising, media, self-help and more. And while this time of year can be a great catalyst for positive change in our lives, what if we made a commitment to live our lives in 2012 focused more on who we are, and not so much on what we do, what we accomplish, what we look like, what we're striving for, and more? One of best things we can do in this New Year is to focus on who we really are, instead of who we think we're supposed to be.

Read More...
Lissa Rankin's picture

How Do You Find Love?

find love

It’s not that hard to find like. Or lust. Or friendship.

But love - true, epic, lasting love, the kind of love that leads you to celebrate 50 year anniversaries - is a whole other story.

As someone with two divorces under my belt, you may be reluctant to take love advice from me, and I wouldn’t blame you! But I’m nine years into my current marriage, and things are better than ever, so maybe I’ve learned a thing or two. Take it with a grain of salt, but in case something I’ve learned resonates with you and helps you find the kind of lasting love I’ve finally found, I wanted to share it with you.

Read More...
Bernie Siegel MD's picture

Why Are You Living This Life?

life purpose

A story should have a beginning, a middle, and an end. . . but not necessarily in that order. ~ Jean Luc Goddard

Why are you living this life?
 
Have you thought about that question carefully? Can you name an action you have already taken or plan to take that will make your life complete? Will it bring you peace when you die because your purpose will have been fulfilled? Mortality is usually an unwelcome subject among families and friends. Many of us spend a lot of time and energy avoiding any acknowledgement that dying is a part of the life cycle, and few people are open about the odds of our lives ending in death being 100%. Those of us who do regularly think about death can be overwhelmed by worry which is a very destructive kind of imaging, but we can control how we react.
Read More...
Lissa Rankin's picture

Do You Want To Sparkle Every Day?


authentic self

Do you feel a connection to the divinity within you? Are you tapped into your authentic, brilliant, 100% sparkly, never-extinguished self? If not, I’ve got good news for you, my love!

You may not know it, but I give a free gift to the Owning Pink community - the brilliance of your Inner Pilot Light’s wisdom on a platter that lands in your inbox every day. I call it The Daily Flame and it's chock-full of inspiration.

Read More...
Lissa Rankin's picture

How Chaz Bono is Being Unapologetically Chaz

Chaz Bono Unapologetic

Owning Pink is all about being unapologetically YOU so you can heal, connect, and thrive. But doing so isn’t always easy, and we all need role models.

I’d like to shine a light on Chaz Bono, who is Owning Pink so fearlessly that I’m in awe. Chaz Bono was born Chastity, but he never felt like a girl. As a tomboy child, he struggled to fit in, and as a teen, he decided he must be a lesbian. But that didn’t feel right either. Chaz just always felt like a man and suffered from the constant unsettling feeling that something just wasn’t right. So two years ago, Chastity announced that she planned to become Chaz.

Transition
Read More...
Lissa Rankin's picture

Speak Your Truth: I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar

speak your truth

Last night, I heard the news that Osama bin Laden had been assassinated. The very first thought that popped into my mind was, “Ding dong the witch is dead. Rejoice, munchkins!" Then a brief 10 seconds later, it was followed by a heaviness in my heart. Everyone all over the US was celebrating. Twitter was all atwitter with gleeful cheering. Facebook was one big PAR-TEE. There were parties in the streets.

And yet, I found myself crying, not because the world isn’t better off without bin Laden in it, but because our reaction as a society breaks my heart.

Speaking my truth

So I wrote this post. And I tweeted it on Twitter. And I posted it on a Facebook. And I quoted Gandhi saying, “An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.”

And then people started un-liking me on Facebook. And un-following me on Twitter. And I started getting hate mail. And that just made me cry more.

Read More...
Syndicate content