
Somewhere right this minute a 5 year old is hiding under their bed with their ears covered, humming quietly to drown out the sound of their parents screaming at each other down the hall.
Somewhere right this minute a 10 year old is sitting alone in a dark treehouse, hoping to hide from the anger of a drunken parent who always turns their anger on the only person in the house small enough to not be able to fight back.
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I’ve learned a lot from jazz musicians, but one of the most important lessons I’ve learned is how to listen. And from that, I’ve made a life-changing discovery: that using my ears is key to finding my voice.
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I have a confession. When I first came across Owning Pink last spring, I was turned off. Not by the content, but by the color. I’m a tom boy. Not a girly girl. I was the little girl that refused to wear pink. My mother was resigned to paint my room yellow because I wasn't doing pink. My theme song is Dar William's "When I Was a Boy." Like her, I would much rather climb a tree or play in the mud than be caught in pink. Own Pink? Own Purple maybe, but not Pink.
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Calling all fella carnal spiritualistas! My Owning Pink blog PopSmarts: Adventures in Using Your Power for Good is an ongoing experiment for me and other Pinkies who believe, want to believe or wonder whether they can be busy, crazy-sexy-cool modern women and happy and spiritually integral in our consumer culture, too. I believe in the middle way for balance in all things. I believe in embracing the paradoxes life is constructed of. This is not an egghead course, or a Fix-it program, but rather an exercise to see if we can become more awakened to our unconscious emotions through awareness and behavior choices, towards using our spirituality pragmatically. Daily.
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I’m not much into the practice of gratitude. I don’t keep a gratitude journal as Oprah prescribed all those years ago, nor am currently I participating in that Facebook thinggie where you post something for which you’re grateful each day from now until Thanksgiving. I mean, I think they’re beautiful ideas, as they help to promote a state of thankfulness in more people who may not otherwise see the blessings in their lives. Really, I’m all for such things. I’ve just never felt particularly drawn to do them.