
I got an email this week from a reader, who was responding to a Facebook post I wrote about having dinner with Crazy Sexy Diet author Kris Carr at Café Gratitude in San Francisco, where she’s visiting on tour for her New York Times bestselling book.
The reader wrote:
"I’m so happy for you that you get to hang out with all these people I admire -- Kris Carr, Sheila Kelley, Debbie Rosas, Mama Gena -- but every time I read about you doing something with women I wish I could have as my friends, I get so jealous I can hardly stand it. And then I feel shitty about myself, but I feel like that makes me a bad person. I don’t want you to stop posting about what you do. I love you, and I want you to keep being ALL YOU, ALL THE TIME. But in the spirit of transparency, I just wanted to share with you how I was feeling and see if you have an suggestions for how I might overcome this.”
So this post is dedicated to her -- and anyone else out there who feels the same. Thank you, my friend, for speaking your truth and for being the lovely light you are.
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I can’t tell you how often I’ve heard the phrase, “You’re so skinny, I hate you.” It’s an especially difficult phrase for me to hear, since I was once so fat that I felt nothing but hugely unlovable.
What does it mean when we utter that phrase to slender women – sometimes even total strangers? Does it mean we hate them? Is it supposed to be a compliment?
How could “hate” ever be considered a compliment?
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Every single person needs to have procrastinating time. Time where you just idle by and let life be life. To just not do anything and state that proudly when someone asks: "Whatcher doin?" Nothing is wrong with that. It's just the way for the body and mind to reset themselves, to get you back into a state of mind your work or your family requires.