I don't know who wrote this (thank you, whoever you are). I got this message in a lovely email from rockin' Glori Fickling, our Pink Posse's Pink Tribal Elder & Goddess of Mojo. I thought I'd pass it on to you Pinkies because it's very Pink advice, indeed.
1.Try everything twice.
On one woman's tombstone she said she wanted this epitaph:
Here's the link for the radio show that I did with Tara Sutphen and Marla Maples yesterday, in case you missed it and want to listen: