When people find out you’re a gynecologist, they automatically assume you are a sex goddess who’s got it all figured out. What they don’t realize is that, just because we memorized the blood supply to the clitoris and the nerve pathways of the pelvis doesn’t mean we know anything about sex. Sure, we hear stories. Women talk to us and ask questions, so we gather wisdom through experience. But when it comes to our personal lives, most gynecologists I know are just as messed up about sex as everyone else. Why? Because sex has nothing to do with arteries, neurons, or skin folds.