“I own Pink by choosing to own all of me. . . the light and the dark, the masculine and feminine, the sacred and profane. . . while doing my best to remember that having compassion for myself and others along the way, makes it all worthwhile.”

My search for marital bliss landed me in the discovery that the bliss was so blatantly absent. This propelled me forward on an awe-inspiring and surprising journey to discover my truth and desires, and then balance all of that with life’s responsibilities. I am moving forward, stepping out boldly into the world, to bring my authentic self into the light.

As women, many of us live “lives of quiet desperation” when it comes to what we want/need/desire. After 19 years of marriage – and spending the last 10 trying to figure out what was “wrong with me” – I realized that there was nothing wrong with him or me. 

Every rock was turned over in an attempt to make our marriage work, including our last attempt - sacred sexuality. Though the separation has been emotionally jagged and full with grief for the family unit that once was, the result is a very unusually tender and sacred divorce.

As mother, sister, lover and guide for the female soul, I want to crack open the shells in which we embed ourselves, to reveal the delicious depth within. . . leading us to what’s possible in this lifetime in the areas of intimacy, spirituality, and love.

“If one woman told the truth about her life, the world would split open.” ~ Muriel Rukeyser